"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Slapping a girl in bed

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Ease

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Have you ever done it?

I dont think i have ever explicitly slapped her during sex in a kinky way. I have grabbed her face with my hand hard, but never just went outright and started slapping.

I reckon it would be quite good.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes, it's best to do it when you're fvcking her so hard that she can't react to it...

If you want to ease your way into it (and i do this) - go ahead and grab her face like you're talking about and kindda lift your fingers up and bring them down as kind of a "mini-finger smack"... do it again and increase how hard you're hitting her... see how she reacts - if she doen't - that's pretty much a green light to go all in on her.

enjoy...
 
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I think it depends. I met with a girl last night (first time after a LTR) and she wanted to be slapped across the face with hair pulling and all. Pretty cool.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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