"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Single women with kids

jimjam

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I see a lot of women pushing strollers while I'm out walking, shopping, etc.

Anyone have an idea how to approach without coming off like a creep? I suppose if you think you're a creep, then so will she. But I still can't get past it. Seems kind of awkward

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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speed dawg

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Don't f*ck with them while they are with their kids. Just don't do it. If I have to explain why you shouldn't do this, just go ahead and off yourself.

Now, I'm a big proponent of gaming and f*cking single mommies, they are good confidence boosters and fun on top of that (just take precautions) if you don't fall in love with them. But not around the kids. I say again, LEAVE THE KIDS ALONE.
 

hockeyfreak79

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Single moms are know as low hanging fruit. I stopped dating them about a year ago. Had my last go around & haven't looked back. Not worth the hastle unless they just want a f-buddy.

SpeedDawg said it best, don't fall in-love with them.
 

MatureDJ

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I would recommend that you go to Plenty of Fish and say that you would have no problem helping raise a stepchild as you feel that a fatherless kid needs a daddy. Your cup will then runneth over.
 

VladPatton

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No matter how hot, they're the bottom of the totem pole. Sad but true. It's like searching for a new car and limiting yourself to AMC Pacers.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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