"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Single women with kids

jimjam

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I see a lot of women pushing strollers while I'm out walking, shopping, etc.

Anyone have an idea how to approach without coming off like a creep? I suppose if you think you're a creep, then so will she. But I still can't get past it. Seems kind of awkward

Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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speed dawg

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Don't f*ck with them while they are with their kids. Just don't do it. If I have to explain why you shouldn't do this, just go ahead and off yourself.

Now, I'm a big proponent of gaming and f*cking single mommies, they are good confidence boosters and fun on top of that (just take precautions) if you don't fall in love with them. But not around the kids. I say again, LEAVE THE KIDS ALONE.
 

hockeyfreak79

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Single moms are know as low hanging fruit. I stopped dating them about a year ago. Had my last go around & haven't looked back. Not worth the hastle unless they just want a f-buddy.

SpeedDawg said it best, don't fall in-love with them.
 

MatureDJ

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I would recommend that you go to Plenty of Fish and say that you would have no problem helping raise a stepchild as you feel that a fatherless kid needs a daddy. Your cup will then runneth over.
 

VladPatton

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No matter how hot, they're the bottom of the totem pole. Sad but true. It's like searching for a new car and limiting yourself to AMC Pacers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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