Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Single women with kids

jimjam

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I see a lot of women pushing strollers while I'm out walking, shopping, etc.

Anyone have an idea how to approach without coming off like a creep? I suppose if you think you're a creep, then so will she. But I still can't get past it. Seems kind of awkward

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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speed dawg

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Don't f*ck with them while they are with their kids. Just don't do it. If I have to explain why you shouldn't do this, just go ahead and off yourself.

Now, I'm a big proponent of gaming and f*cking single mommies, they are good confidence boosters and fun on top of that (just take precautions) if you don't fall in love with them. But not around the kids. I say again, LEAVE THE KIDS ALONE.
 

hockeyfreak79

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Single moms are know as low hanging fruit. I stopped dating them about a year ago. Had my last go around & haven't looked back. Not worth the hastle unless they just want a f-buddy.

SpeedDawg said it best, don't fall in-love with them.
 

MatureDJ

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I would recommend that you go to Plenty of Fish and say that you would have no problem helping raise a stepchild as you feel that a fatherless kid needs a daddy. Your cup will then runneth over.
 

VladPatton

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No matter how hot, they're the bottom of the totem pole. Sad but true. It's like searching for a new car and limiting yourself to AMC Pacers.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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