"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Single women with kids

jimjam

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I see a lot of women pushing strollers while I'm out walking, shopping, etc.

Anyone have an idea how to approach without coming off like a creep? I suppose if you think you're a creep, then so will she. But I still can't get past it. Seems kind of awkward

Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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speed dawg

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Don't f*ck with them while they are with their kids. Just don't do it. If I have to explain why you shouldn't do this, just go ahead and off yourself.

Now, I'm a big proponent of gaming and f*cking single mommies, they are good confidence boosters and fun on top of that (just take precautions) if you don't fall in love with them. But not around the kids. I say again, LEAVE THE KIDS ALONE.
 

hockeyfreak79

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Single moms are know as low hanging fruit. I stopped dating them about a year ago. Had my last go around & haven't looked back. Not worth the hastle unless they just want a f-buddy.

SpeedDawg said it best, don't fall in-love with them.
 

MatureDJ

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I would recommend that you go to Plenty of Fish and say that you would have no problem helping raise a stepchild as you feel that a fatherless kid needs a daddy. Your cup will then runneth over.
 

VladPatton

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No matter how hot, they're the bottom of the totem pole. Sad but true. It's like searching for a new car and limiting yourself to AMC Pacers.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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