Since I am afriad of appraoching, why not get to the point?

[LogMeIn]

Basically just hit up girls and ask her if she has a bf or if she wants to be yoiur girlfriend. It's not hard but i starting to understand taht getting to the point will remove all doubts on your mind. AT least now you have the answer right away. You shouldn't avoid confrontation. Always be direct and be respectful.

 

[Desdinova]

Although it may be flattering to women who don't get laid a lot (or ever), it can come across as somewhat negative because you "didn't get to know her first" or you "just want one thing". Getting a woman to feel attraction towards you first removes all potential barriers.

 

[Magotrox]

Getting a woman to feel attraction towards you first removes all potential barriers.

Perfect advice. Be a man, first. Be attractive. The lower the value of a man, more barriers she will rise. The higher the value of a man, less barriers will be. Very true.

 

[LogMeIn]

I've decided to test it on a woman on facebook and she responded.... lol

her: you too young for me
me: i am old enough to ride the bus

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

That will never work.

 

[wifehunter]

if you're afraid to approach, you'll have the same frame in a relationship.

Get out, talk to everyone...work on social interaction.