Basically just hit up girls and ask her if she has a bf or if she wants to be yoiur girlfriend. It's not hard but i starting to understand taht getting to the point will remove all doubts on your mind. AT least now you have the answer right away. You shouldn't avoid confrontation. Always be direct and be respectful.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Since I am afriad of appraoching, why not get to the point?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Desdinova
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Although it may be flattering to women who don't get laid a lot (or ever), it can come across as somewhat negative because you "didn't get to know her first" or you "just want one thing". Getting a woman to feel attraction towards you first removes all potential barriers.
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Perfect advice. Be a man, first. Be attractive. The lower the value of a man, more barriers she will rise. The higher the value of a man, less barriers will be. Very true.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
That will never work.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
if you're afraid to approach, you'll have the same frame in a relationship.
Get out, talk to everyone...work on social interaction.
Get out, talk to everyone...work on social interaction.