Basically just hit up girls and ask her if she has a bf or if she wants to be yoiur girlfriend. It's not hard but i starting to understand taht getting to the point will remove all doubts on your mind. AT least now you have the answer right away. You shouldn't avoid confrontation. Always be direct and be respectful.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Since I am afriad of appraoching, why not get to the point?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Desdinova
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Although it may be flattering to women who don't get laid a lot (or ever), it can come across as somewhat negative because you "didn't get to know her first" or you "just want one thing". Getting a woman to feel attraction towards you first removes all potential barriers.
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Perfect advice. Be a man, first. Be attractive. The lower the value of a man, more barriers she will rise. The higher the value of a man, less barriers will be. Very true.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
That will never work.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
if you're afraid to approach, you'll have the same frame in a relationship.
Get out, talk to everyone...work on social interaction.
Get out, talk to everyone...work on social interaction.