Basically just hit up girls and ask her if she has a bf or if she wants to be yoiur girlfriend. It's not hard but i starting to understand taht getting to the point will remove all doubts on your mind. AT least now you have the answer right away. You shouldn't avoid confrontation. Always be direct and be respectful.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Since I am afriad of appraoching, why not get to the point?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Desdinova
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Although it may be flattering to women who don't get laid a lot (or ever), it can come across as somewhat negative because you "didn't get to know her first" or you "just want one thing". Getting a woman to feel attraction towards you first removes all potential barriers.
Magotrox
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Perfect advice. Be a man, first. Be attractive. The lower the value of a man, more barriers she will rise. The higher the value of a man, less barriers will be. Very true.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
That will never work.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
if you're afraid to approach, you'll have the same frame in a relationship.
Get out, talk to everyone...work on social interaction.
Get out, talk to everyone...work on social interaction.