“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Simplicity (Revisited the 10,000th time)

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Step 1: get over social and sexual* anxieties

Step 2: forget about being a "DJ"

Step 3: focus on making yourself someone who's actually worth loving. i.e. live.

Done.


*edit: thanks Fingaz.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well, thats that done then.

Why are we all still here gubby? I really don't know anymore.
 

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sam3083 said:
Well, thats that done then.

Why are we all still here gubby? I really don't know anymore.
Lol is that ironic or serious?? I figure I've met a SH'ITLOAD of cool people on this site. As good a reason as any. You're a cool person yaself sam, I think :D

Besides, sometimes you need to destroy your negative simplicity, turning to positive complexity for inspiration -- finally condensing the complexity into positive simplicity again! It's the dance of the yin and yang man :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, I'm glad I gave myself time to think about this.

It wasn't to long ago we were way way way way over-complicating and over-analysing everything. (i.e. here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=142003). Even though I still agree with everything said there, we were both, or I was atleast ramming my head into the brick wall, instead of walking around the damn wall! (laugh at yourself thread, anyone?)

I'm terrible for over-analysing. And, I would assume that applies to alot of guys like us. We are smart guys. We don't need routines - or even alot of philosophies. Just a few good ol' home truths.

Seems like the more depressed/scared I am, the more I over-analyse. The happier/freer I am, the more I let it go.


I guess the problem is when the really 'socially awkward/creepy' (ie; not us) come here. This wouldn;t help them at all - they need more direction. Thats where Fingz comes in with his 'weapons of mass seduction'. A great, great, text, btw, lol.


Anywho. Im off to climb a mountain (litterally, lol).
 

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Sam I've learnt when I'm scared/depressed if I let it go I become happier/free. You can mix up the cause and effect.

I think in order to 'get it' simply you have to go through the rigerous journey of overanalysing stuff for a little while and then your subconcious 'gets it' and it all fits together.

Why am I still here? Damn that's a good question...
 
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