"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I already have plans this weekend. I'll pick you up next wednesday at 7pm. Wear a nice ****tail dress.
backseatjuan
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Bullsht champ bait just by looking at it.
Whatever you reply or not reply should be in context of what you were saying. There is no per say how to reply, it's all in context.
I wonder though how did you ask her out.
I bet it was how about we go to a place?
To which she said Yes! Let me figure out my schedule.
You gotta do it in steps
Qualifier, vague suggestion, close
1) Qualifier question
“Are you an adventurous person?”
2) Vague suggestion
“What’s your view on drinks and witty banter?”
3) Find out schedule
4) Make plans
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Most probably she either won't talk to you again or she'll message you just to say she's busy, in either case no more energy directed toward her after that. If she actually does suggest seeing each other then I wouldn't pretend to be busy if I wasn't, but that's just my personal style as I'm not afraid of missing out on sex or things ending if I don't play games with her.
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I've taken this approach several times before. It works as long as you do one very important thing that you mentioned......which is assume there is no date and MOVE ON."Sounds good Hon have a great day" Then I will usually go 100% ghost unless she teaches back out. I will also assume that there is no date. I do not call, text, or counteroffer.
If they text FRI evening that they're avail. I''ll respond: "Sorry Hon I made plans but I'll get back to you next week and maybe we can get together then. Have a great day
Some women will recognize you are ejecting and get back to you rather quickly if they had intentions of going out with you.
Others had no intent and you'll never hear from them.
Either is ok with me because I'm moving on to the next one and of she reaches out it's just a bonus date that I was not planning on.
Rule of thumb: most people know their schedule for the next 2 weeks in terms of what they cant get out of and what they can get out of.
Stalling means "I might text you back if I dont get a better offer before then".
I'm not interested in those women because she will only see you when no other better offers present themselves.
Does that sound like a woman that will eventually submit? Hell nah........