“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BJP1991

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How do you reply? This would be after asking a girl out/asking what her availability is like:

When a girl replies with something like “Yes! Let me figure out my schedule and let you know this weekend?”
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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How do you reply? This would be after asking a girl out/asking what her availability is like:

When a girl replies with something like “Yes! Let me figure out my schedule and let you know this weekend?”
I already have plans this weekend. I'll pick you up next wednesday at 7pm. Wear a nice ****tail dress.
 

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How do you reply? This would be after asking a girl out/asking what her availability is like:

When a girl replies with something like “Yes! Let me figure out my schedule and let you know this weekend?”
I am with @dude99 . Dont seem too available.

"Yeah this weekend wont work because I am not free. Lets do next Tuesday. Say 8pm?"
 

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“Yes! Let me figure out my schedule and let you know this weekend?”
Bullsht champ bait just by looking at it.
Whatever you reply or not reply should be in context of what you were saying. There is no per say how to reply, it's all in context.

I wonder though how did you ask her out.
I bet it was how about we go to a place?
To which she said Yes! Let me figure out my schedule.

You gotta do it in steps
Qualifier, vague suggestion, close
1) Qualifier question
“Are you an adventurous person?”
2) Vague suggestion
“What’s your view on drinks and witty banter?”
3) Find out schedule
4) Make plans
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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"Great" and that's it, then like Espi said assume there is no date and ghost her unless she contacts you.

Most probably she either won't talk to you again or she'll message you just to say she's busy, in either case no more energy directed toward her after that. If she actually does suggest seeing each other then I wouldn't pretend to be busy if I wasn't, but that's just my personal style as I'm not afraid of missing out on sex or things ending if I don't play games with her.
 
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"Sounds good Hon have a great day ;);)" Then I will usually go 100% ghost unless she teaches back out. I will also assume that there is no date. I do not call, text, or counteroffer.

If they text FRI evening that they're avail. I''ll respond: "Sorry Hon I made plans but I'll get back to you next week and maybe we can get together then. Have a great day ;);)"
I've taken this approach several times before. It works as long as you do one very important thing that you mentioned......which is assume there is no date and MOVE ON.

Some women will recognize you are ejecting and get back to you rather quickly if they had intentions of going out with you.

Others had no intent and you'll never hear from them.

Either is ok with me because I'm moving on to the next one and of she reaches out it's just a bonus date that I was not planning on.
Rule of thumb: most people know their schedule for the next 2 weeks in terms of what they cant get out of and what they can get out of.

Stalling means "I might text you back if I dont get a better offer before then".

I'm not interested in those women because she will only see you when no other better offers present themselves.

Does that sound like a woman that will eventually submit? Hell nah........
 
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