Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I already have plans this weekend. I'll pick you up next wednesday at 7pm. Wear a nice ****tail dress.How do you reply? This would be after asking a girl out/asking what her availability is like:
When a girl replies with something like “Yes! Let me figure out my schedule and let you know this weekend?”
I am with @dude99 . Dont seem too available.How do you reply? This would be after asking a girl out/asking what her availability is like:
When a girl replies with something like “Yes! Let me figure out my schedule and let you know this weekend?”
Bullsht champ bait just by looking at it.“Yes! Let me figure out my schedule and let you know this weekend?”
I've taken this approach several times before. It works as long as you do one very important thing that you mentioned......which is assume there is no date and MOVE ON."Sounds good Hon have a great day" Then I will usually go 100% ghost unless she teaches back out. I will also assume that there is no date. I do not call, text, or counteroffer.
If they text FRI evening that they're avail. I''ll respond: "Sorry Hon I made plans but I'll get back to you next week and maybe we can get together then. Have a great day"