"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Silly freshman girls

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easyjim

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I am a sophmore at a wierd little college. We've been here 2 weeks and me, being the master of eye contact, sparked some serious interest within a hot long legged brunette freshman girl. I haven't approached her yet though because I haven't really had a good oppurtunity and I have a hard time approaching women that I am attracted too, but her interest level is def. high.

My question is this, when freshman girls arrive here they are obsessed with getting boyfriends asap. I've noticed this particular girl hanging around some c0ck alot recently and I think they may be together. Did I blow it by waiting too long, or should I still approach and try to get the #?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Paintballguy

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I've noticed a lot of freshman girls go wild because they finally are away from their parents and have nobody telling them what they can or can't do.
 

PeeGee

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You should approach. This '****' might be a friend, a loser, or her brother. You won't know until you ask, right?
 

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Approach her and you'll find out everything! If that guys is her fb or bf..she still might upgrade for you...cause your so suave!:D
 

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Originally posted by easyjim
I am a sophmore at a wierd little college. We've been here 2 weeks and me, being the master of eye contact, sparked some serious interest within a hot long legged brunette freshman girl.
Don't speek negatively about your college.

I haven't approached her yet though
She is seriously interested but you haven't even approached. You have beter perception than me.

because I haven't really had a good oppurtunity
There are few GOOD opportunities, but there is always right now.

and I have a hard time approaching women that I am attracted too,
There are all pink inthe middle

but her interest level is def. high.
then go ask her dip ****.

My question is this, when freshman girls arrive here they are obsessed with getting boyfriends asap. I've noticed this particular girl hanging around some c0ck alot recently and I think they may be together. Did I blow it by waiting too long, or should I still approach and try to get the #?
Approach and you will see if you are too late.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Try and get the number asap. Let me warn you about something though... If things don't work out i.e. shes got a man, I dont wanna get into anymore negative things, but you will have to see this broad for the rest of the semester. But hey, like wade boggs once said " If you wanna hit, you gotta swing". good luck
 

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I seriously don't understand questions like "should I approach or not"?

Why shouldn't you?

What bad stuff happens if you approach?

Nothing.

So approach.
 
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Cheiradawg...


Thanks, you are right on all points, except for the comment on my school.

You really have no idea, so keep your comments directed towards stuff you know about...

...Like me being a dip **** for not approaching yet......yes, i know this bro, but i'll get it.
 

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Originally posted by easyjim
Cheiradawg...


Thanks, you are right on all points, except for the comment on my school.

You really have no idea, so keep your comments directed towards stuff you know about...

...Like me being a dip **** for not approaching yet......yes, i know this bro, but i'll get it.

Hey, just a word of advise. Never take anything personal. I thought it was a joke, but I can't speak for him. You shouldn't let others effect the way you feel. It the same as if a chick would rejected you. Just move on. good luck on your journey, hope you improve. If you ever question what you should do next. Write it on a piece of paper and answer it yourself. I think the technic called reframing.

For example ask yourself?.. "Should I approach her?"

then answer it. "Yes, why not. I got nothing to lose and she looks interested in me."
 
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