interestingly you gave on our debate.Originally posted by Wyldfire
And of course you clearly would know my age better than I do...
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i win
thanks for playing.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
interestingly you gave on our debate.Originally posted by Wyldfire
And of course you clearly would know my age better than I do...
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
If I were to ever lie about my age I would claim to be older than I actually am. I'm 39 and will turn 40 in December.Originally posted by Fatality
you know you are older than 39...
Actually, I just find you to be painfully boring...Originally posted by quest
interestingly you gave on our debate.
i win
thanks for playing.
well this painfully boring guy managed to get quite some text out of you.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Actually, I just find you to be painfully boring...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Hey...sorry I disappeared on you. I had some seriously major sh*t going down here at home. My ex husband assaulted our 14 year old son. My boy wanted to try to live with his father, so I let him. Wasn't even a year and I get a phone call from the state police that my ex is in jail for domestic assault against my kid. I've had court out the ying yang...criminal case, restraining order, emergency change of custody, updating of divorce agreement, meetings like crazy, new job, carting 3 teenagers to their jobs...court case with my rental agent over their psycho employee (he tried to run me over with his snow plow and threatened to shoot my neighbor's dog). It's been keeping me busy. I don't have time to admin the other site anymore.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Wyldfire: u suck!:kick:
Laterz...
Biotch, please...Originally posted by quest
well this painfully boring guy managed to get quite some text out of you.
fair to say,
You've been played.
wow!Originally posted by Wyldfire
Hey...sorry I disappeared on you. I had some seriously major sh*t going down here at home. My ex husband assaulted our 14 year old son. My boy wanted to try to live with his father, so I let him. Wasn't even a year and I get a phone call from the state police that my ex is in jail for domestic assault against my kid. I've had court out the ying yang...criminal case, restraining order, emergency change of custody, updating of divorce agreement, meetings like crazy, new job, carting 3 teenagers to their jobs...court case with my rental agent over their psycho employee (he tried to run me over with his snow plow and threatened to shoot my neighbor's dog). It's been keeping me busy. I don't have time to admin the other site anymore.
Once things calmed down I planned on going to post but I forgot the damn link and I have so darn many email addys that I use that I couldn't find the email with the link and info. I've got tons of spam on several of the accounts and it's buried everything. I'll get over there sometime today and post.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
wow!ok i see.... no worries, I hope you get everything sorted... i'm doing fine on my own there, just dont forget about the other site ey
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Laterz...
hehe, ok... you can always click the link in my sigOriginally posted by Wyldfire
Once things calmed down I planned on going to post but I forgot the damn link and I have so darn many email addys that I use that I couldn't find the email with the link and info. I've got tons of spam on several of the accounts and it's buried everything. I'll get over there sometime today and post.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Okay...I Just made a post in Announcements explaining what's been going on.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
hehe, ok... you can always click the link in my sig![]()
Laterz...
I remember very vividly you saying you were late 40's and often get mistaken for 30 years old.Originally posted by Wyldfire
If I were to ever lie about my age I would claim to be older than I actually am. I'm 39 and will turn 40 in December.
No...I said I was late 30's and get mistaken for being in my late 20's. Your memory is about as long as a little girl's penis.Originally posted by Fatality
I remember very vividly you saying you were late 40's and often get mistaken for 30 years old.
I'm on to you grandma![]()
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sure thing grandmaOriginally posted by Wyldfire
No...I said I was late 30's and get mistaken for being in my late 20's. Your memory is about as long as a little girl's penis.
That's not what my neighbor's 23 year old son told me...Originally posted by Fatality
sure thing grandma
either way you don't look a day under 50![]()
lol yes you should believe everything a horny guy tells youOriginally posted by Wyldfire
That's not what my neighbor's 23 year old son told me...
Originally posted by Fatality
lol yes you should believe everything a horny guy tells you![]()
wow you look younger then you are.Originally posted by Wyldfire
You are the only person who has ever claimed that I look over 10 years older than my actual age. Most people insist that I look 10 years younger than my age....and not just "horny guys". One guy I was with used to get biotched at by his friends for "robbing the cradle" by being with me. They thought he was significantly older than I was. I was actually older than he was.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.