interestingly you gave on our debate.Originally posted by Wyldfire
And of course you clearly would know my age better than I do...
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i win
thanks for playing.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
interestingly you gave on our debate.Originally posted by Wyldfire
And of course you clearly would know my age better than I do...
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If I were to ever lie about my age I would claim to be older than I actually am. I'm 39 and will turn 40 in December.Originally posted by Fatality
you know you are older than 39...
Actually, I just find you to be painfully boring...Originally posted by quest
interestingly you gave on our debate.
i win
thanks for playing.
well this painfully boring guy managed to get quite some text out of you.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Actually, I just find you to be painfully boring...
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hey...sorry I disappeared on you. I had some seriously major sh*t going down here at home. My ex husband assaulted our 14 year old son. My boy wanted to try to live with his father, so I let him. Wasn't even a year and I get a phone call from the state police that my ex is in jail for domestic assault against my kid. I've had court out the ying yang...criminal case, restraining order, emergency change of custody, updating of divorce agreement, meetings like crazy, new job, carting 3 teenagers to their jobs...court case with my rental agent over their psycho employee (he tried to run me over with his snow plow and threatened to shoot my neighbor's dog). It's been keeping me busy. I don't have time to admin the other site anymore.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Wyldfire: u suck!:kick:
Laterz...
Biotch, please...Originally posted by quest
well this painfully boring guy managed to get quite some text out of you.
fair to say,
You've been played.
wow!Originally posted by Wyldfire
Hey...sorry I disappeared on you. I had some seriously major sh*t going down here at home. My ex husband assaulted our 14 year old son. My boy wanted to try to live with his father, so I let him. Wasn't even a year and I get a phone call from the state police that my ex is in jail for domestic assault against my kid. I've had court out the ying yang...criminal case, restraining order, emergency change of custody, updating of divorce agreement, meetings like crazy, new job, carting 3 teenagers to their jobs...court case with my rental agent over their psycho employee (he tried to run me over with his snow plow and threatened to shoot my neighbor's dog). It's been keeping me busy. I don't have time to admin the other site anymore.
Once things calmed down I planned on going to post but I forgot the damn link and I have so darn many email addys that I use that I couldn't find the email with the link and info. I've got tons of spam on several of the accounts and it's buried everything. I'll get over there sometime today and post.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
wow!ok i see.... no worries, I hope you get everything sorted... i'm doing fine on my own there, just dont forget about the other site ey
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Laterz...
hehe, ok... you can always click the link in my sigOriginally posted by Wyldfire
Once things calmed down I planned on going to post but I forgot the damn link and I have so darn many email addys that I use that I couldn't find the email with the link and info. I've got tons of spam on several of the accounts and it's buried everything. I'll get over there sometime today and post.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Okay...I Just made a post in Announcements explaining what's been going on.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
hehe, ok... you can always click the link in my sig![]()
Laterz...
I remember very vividly you saying you were late 40's and often get mistaken for 30 years old.Originally posted by Wyldfire
If I were to ever lie about my age I would claim to be older than I actually am. I'm 39 and will turn 40 in December.
No...I said I was late 30's and get mistaken for being in my late 20's. Your memory is about as long as a little girl's penis.Originally posted by Fatality
I remember very vividly you saying you were late 40's and often get mistaken for 30 years old.
I'm on to you grandma![]()
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sure thing grandmaOriginally posted by Wyldfire
No...I said I was late 30's and get mistaken for being in my late 20's. Your memory is about as long as a little girl's penis.
That's not what my neighbor's 23 year old son told me...Originally posted by Fatality
sure thing grandma
either way you don't look a day under 50![]()
lol yes you should believe everything a horny guy tells youOriginally posted by Wyldfire
That's not what my neighbor's 23 year old son told me...
Originally posted by Fatality
lol yes you should believe everything a horny guy tells you![]()
wow you look younger then you are.Originally posted by Wyldfire
You are the only person who has ever claimed that I look over 10 years older than my actual age. Most people insist that I look 10 years younger than my age....and not just "horny guys". One guy I was with used to get biotched at by his friends for "robbing the cradle" by being with me. They thought he was significantly older than I was. I was actually older than he was.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.