"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Signs of that a woman is a Playerette
- Thread starter Genghis Juan
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hey...sorry I disappeared on you. I had some seriously major sh*t going down here at home. My ex husband assaulted our 14 year old son. My boy wanted to try to live with his father, so I let him. Wasn't even a year and I get a phone call from the state police that my ex is in jail for domestic assault against my kid. I've had court out the ying yang...criminal case, restraining order, emergency change of custody, updating of divorce agreement, meetings like crazy, new job, carting 3 teenagers to their jobs...court case with my rental agent over their psycho employee (he tried to run me over with his snow plow and threatened to shoot my neighbor's dog). It's been keeping me busy. I don't have time to admin the other site anymore.
Once things calmed down I planned on going to post but I forgot the damn link and I have so darn many email addys that I use that I couldn't find the email with the link and info. I've got tons of spam on several of the accounts and it's buried everything. I'll get over there sometime today and post.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
wow!ok i see.... no worries, I hope you get everything sorted... i'm doing fine on my own there, just dont forget about the other site ey
Take it easy
Laterz...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
Now if my car or jetski ever played me, then I'd be real upset.
Most girls know how low in my priorities they stand and it drives 'em nuts.BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
After learning alot of stuff about women on this sight alone about how women can play on guys,( which is all I really wanted to learn before I even stumbled across this site.) It just gave me enough reasons not to trust women or anyone for that matter even more.Now dont hate women, I love 'em, but they're human and there's no reason to have any faith in human's.
No...I said I was late 30's and get mistaken for being in my late 20's. Your memory is about as long as a little girl's penis.Originally posted by Fatality
I remember very vividly you saying you were late 40's and often get mistaken for 30 years old.
I'm on to you grandma
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by Fatality
lol yes you should believe everything a horny guy tells you
You are the only person who has ever claimed that I look over 10 years older than my actual age. Most people insist that I look 10 years younger than my age....and not just "horny guys". One guy I was with used to get biotched at by his friends for "robbing the cradle" by being with me. They thought he was significantly older than I was. I was actually older than he was.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.