"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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quest

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
And of course you clearly would know my age better than I do...

:rolleyes:
interestingly you gave on our debate.

i win :)

thanks for playing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by Fatality
you know you are older than 39...
If I were to ever lie about my age I would claim to be older than I actually am. I'm 39 and will turn 40 in December.
 

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Originally posted by quest
interestingly you gave on our debate.

i win :)

thanks for playing.
Actually, I just find you to be painfully boring...
 

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Wyldfire: u suck!:kick:


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Actually, I just find you to be painfully boring...
well this painfully boring guy managed to get quite some text out of you.

fair to say,

You've been played.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Wyldfire: u suck!:kick:


Laterz...
Hey...sorry I disappeared on you. I had some seriously major sh*t going down here at home. My ex husband assaulted our 14 year old son. My boy wanted to try to live with his father, so I let him. Wasn't even a year and I get a phone call from the state police that my ex is in jail for domestic assault against my kid. I've had court out the ying yang...criminal case, restraining order, emergency change of custody, updating of divorce agreement, meetings like crazy, new job, carting 3 teenagers to their jobs...court case with my rental agent over their psycho employee (he tried to run me over with his snow plow and threatened to shoot my neighbor's dog). It's been keeping me busy. I don't have time to admin the other site anymore.
 

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Originally posted by quest
well this painfully boring guy managed to get quite some text out of you.

fair to say,

You've been played.
Biotch, please...

:rolleyes:
 

Climax

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Hey...sorry I disappeared on you. I had some seriously major sh*t going down here at home. My ex husband assaulted our 14 year old son. My boy wanted to try to live with his father, so I let him. Wasn't even a year and I get a phone call from the state police that my ex is in jail for domestic assault against my kid. I've had court out the ying yang...criminal case, restraining order, emergency change of custody, updating of divorce agreement, meetings like crazy, new job, carting 3 teenagers to their jobs...court case with my rental agent over their psycho employee (he tried to run me over with his snow plow and threatened to shoot my neighbor's dog). It's been keeping me busy. I don't have time to admin the other site anymore.
wow!:eek: ok i see.... no worries, I hope you get everything sorted... i'm doing fine on my own there, just dont forget about the other site ey;)

Take it easy:)


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
wow!:eek: ok i see.... no worries, I hope you get everything sorted... i'm doing fine on my own there, just dont forget about the other site ey;)

Take it easy:)


Laterz...
Once things calmed down I planned on going to post but I forgot the damn link and I have so darn many email addys that I use that I couldn't find the email with the link and info. I've got tons of spam on several of the accounts and it's buried everything. I'll get over there sometime today and post.
 

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kewl kewl...

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Once things calmed down I planned on going to post but I forgot the damn link and I have so darn many email addys that I use that I couldn't find the email with the link and info. I've got tons of spam on several of the accounts and it's buried everything. I'll get over there sometime today and post.
hehe, ok... you can always click the link in my sig;)


Laterz...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Re: kewl kewl...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
hehe, ok... you can always click the link in my sig;)


Laterz...
Okay...I Just made a post in Announcements explaining what's been going on.
 

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I don't think that at this point in my life I could be played, by anyone. I'm actually looking for a steady LTR, so you would think I'm at risk, right? Well, you could try, but no matter what you do I have been through more **** than you could throw at me. My families health record is so horrible (mine is fine, tho) that I have been dealing with life-and-death situations since I was 4. And since my ex played me recently, now I know what to look for. I don't believe that any woman could play me just because women are trivial, they play a minor part in life. If they do the most painful, hurtful things possible, who cares? It's not like she's important.




Now if my car or jetski ever played me, then I'd be real upset. :) Most girls know how low in my priorities they stand and it drives 'em nuts.
 

Fatality

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
If I were to ever lie about my age I would claim to be older than I actually am. I'm 39 and will turn 40 in December.
I remember very vividly you saying you were late 40's and often get mistaken for 30 years old.

I'm on to you grandma:mad: :)
 

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I believe that I cant get played. Not because I think I'm to smart, it's just cause my trust factor is extremely low for people in general. In order to play or get played, the playee has to develope some form of trust for the player.
After learning alot of stuff about women on this sight alone about how women can play on guys,( which is all I really wanted to learn before I even stumbled across this site.) It just gave me enough reasons not to trust women or anyone for that matter even more.Now dont hate women, I love 'em, but they're human and there's no reason to have any faith in human's.
 

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Originally posted by Fatality
I remember very vividly you saying you were late 40's and often get mistaken for 30 years old.

I'm on to you grandma:mad: :)
No...I said I was late 30's and get mistaken for being in my late 20's. Your memory is about as long as a little girl's penis.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
No...I said I was late 30's and get mistaken for being in my late 20's. Your memory is about as long as a little girl's penis.
sure thing grandma

either way you don't look a day under 50:(
 

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Originally posted by Fatality
sure thing grandma

either way you don't look a day under 50:(
That's not what my neighbor's 23 year old son told me...
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
That's not what my neighbor's 23 year old son told me...
lol yes you should believe everything a horny guy tells you:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Fatality
lol yes you should believe everything a horny guy tells you:rolleyes:


You are the only person who has ever claimed that I look over 10 years older than my actual age. Most people insist that I look 10 years younger than my age....and not just "horny guys". One guy I was with used to get biotched at by his friends for "robbing the cradle" by being with me. They thought he was significantly older than I was. I was actually older than he was.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
You are the only person who has ever claimed that I look over 10 years older than my actual age. Most people insist that I look 10 years younger than my age....and not just "horny guys". One guy I was with used to get biotched at by his friends for "robbing the cradle" by being with me. They thought he was significantly older than I was. I was actually older than he was.
wow you look younger then you are.

that doesn't stop you being a mole.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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