"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Signs a women is a attention *****

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1.) Constantly seeking validation on social media with selfies and other attention seeking pics.

2.) Glued to her phone

3.) Wont tie herself down by accepting a date offer, yet continues the conversation because she wants as many options as possible.

4.) Lots of "guy" friends. They normally hit you with "I just get along with guys better than most of my girl friends".

5.) Once they get the attention they are seeking and get self validation, they go cold. After all, they got what they wanted.
 

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Validation and attention is All shes looking for, keeping orbiters to laugh with her friends about them
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1.) Constantly seeking validation on social media with selfies and other attention seeking pics.

2.) Glued to her phone

3.) Wont tie herself down by accepting a date offer, yet continues the conversation because she wants as many options as possible.

4.) Lots of "guy" friends. They normally hit you with "I just get along with guys better than most of my girl friends".

5.) Once they get the attention they are seeking and get self validation, they go cold. After all, they got what they wanted.
#4 could also be a cluster b trait.
 

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Hey guys I'm having problems finding out if a woman is a attention *****. What are so sign a woman is a attention *****?
The most obvious sign is you are not getting what you want from her.

She will say all the right things, but when it comes to execution you get nothing. Her excuses will be very believable too. Don't fall for it.

Remember this.. with women you are either on the same page or you're not. When you're on the same page, you will get what you want. When you're not on the same page, you will get wasted time, bullsh*t excuses, doubt, confusion, flaking, etc.

Do you feel like you are CHASING her even when she is right in front of you? If so she is probably an attention wh0re.
 

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The most obvious sign is you are not getting what you want from her.

She will say all the right things, but when it comes to execution you get nothing. Her excuses will be very believable too. Don't fall for it.

Remember this.. with women you are either on the same page or you're not. When you're on the same page, you will get what you want. When you're not on the same page, you will get wasted time, bullsh*t excuses, doubt, confusion, flaking, etc.

Do you feel like you are CHASING her even when she is right in front of you? If so she is probably an attention wh0re.
Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.
Easy. Just pull up her Instagram (or Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter, etc.) account. How many selfies has she posted? 1 or 2 out of dozens? Safe. Hundreds? Run for the fvcking hills man (or just smash and dash / pump and dump). I learned that lesson the hard way this year. Never again.

Is she constantly posting pictures / modeling photos from beaches, pool, with her dog/cat? Dumb duck face photos. Any picture to boast her having fun that screams "LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME! (OMG I'M SO HOT. I'M A 10. I HAVE A MILLION ORBITERS WAITING TO HOOK UP WITH ME)."
 

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Hey guys I'm having problems finding out if a woman is a attention *****. What are so sign a woman is a attention *****?
Only look for these three and it'll tell you everything you need to know:

Does she have guy friends?
She loves just having fun and doing what feels right
Is she completely and unabashedly honest (hard to gage if you don't know what to look for)

You'll find that most women fail at least one of these. Make sure you test her objectively so you can get the truth otherwise you'll just get what she thinks u want to hear.
 

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Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.
She won't give her phone number and she doesn't ask you any questions about yourself.
 

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I work with some extreme attention wh res. One showed me her tits, and the other two I routinely grab on the butt and pretty much everywhere else. All are married, and I haven't banged any of them. They are attracted to me in some ways, but will leave no opportunity for me where I could take advantage of them. Poor husbands of theirs is what I am thinking.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mate you must be working in hospitality or retail. Office girls only haw for the managers
 

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the only way to get anything out of her is to manipulate her, like ignoring her until she does what you want, that's standard attention ***** stuff because if they're getting attention they want nothing from you but if they're not getting your attention and want it they'll do anything for it
 

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Mate you must be working in hospitality or retail. Office girls only haw for the managers
Close. It's a medium size company with 500 employees, about half of them being women. It's also run by really old mangina upper management and they don't really take kindly folks like me over there. It is a good environment for married men with kids who want action on the side, while still projecting a reputable image to the company.
 

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the only way to get anything out of her is to manipulate her, like ignoring her until she does what you want, that's standard attention ***** stuff because if they're getting attention they want nothing from you but if they're not getting your attention and want it they'll do anything for it
Yep, the only problem with it is that we all have a goal of sleeping with these women and they will rarely fulfill this. The established fact of you wanting to sleep with them is alone enough to get them off, because validation is the end goal. They dont really want you as a person, only a part of you. You can easily sh!t test these broads and everything becomes pretty clear.
 
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Yep, the only problem with it is that we all have a goal of sleeping with these women and they will rarely fulfill this. The established fact of you wanting to sleep with them is alone enough to get them off, because validation is the end goal. They dont really want you as a person, only a part of you. You can easily sh!t test these broads and everything becomes pretty clear.
So how do you give them what they want? If it's not d1ck they want, what is it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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