Roman McNeil
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Hey guys I'm having problems finding out if a woman is a attention *****. What are so sign a woman is a attention *****?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
#4 could also be a cluster b trait.1.) Constantly seeking validation on social media with selfies and other attention seeking pics.
2.) Glued to her phone
3.) Wont tie herself down by accepting a date offer, yet continues the conversation because she wants as many options as possible.
4.) Lots of "guy" friends. They normally hit you with "I just get along with guys better than most of my girl friends".
5.) Once they get the attention they are seeking and get self validation, they go cold. After all, they got what they wanted.
The most obvious sign is you are not getting what you want from her.Hey guys I'm having problems finding out if a woman is a attention *****. What are so sign a woman is a attention *****?
Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.The most obvious sign is you are not getting what you want from her.
She will say all the right things, but when it comes to execution you get nothing. Her excuses will be very believable too. Don't fall for it.
Remember this.. with women you are either on the same page or you're not. When you're on the same page, you will get what you want. When you're not on the same page, you will get wasted time, bullsh*t excuses, doubt, confusion, flaking, etc.
Do you feel like you are CHASING her even when she is right in front of you? If so she is probably an attention wh0re.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When I mean online I mean dating website?Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.
Easy. Just pull up her Instagram (or Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter, etc.) account. How many selfies has she posted? 1 or 2 out of dozens? Safe. Hundreds? Run for the fvcking hills man (or just smash and dash / pump and dump). I learned that lesson the hard way this year. Never again.Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.
Only look for these three and it'll tell you everything you need to know:Hey guys I'm having problems finding out if a woman is a attention *****. What are so sign a woman is a attention *****?
She won't give her phone number and she doesn't ask you any questions about yourself.Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Close. It's a medium size company with 500 employees, about half of them being women. It's also run by really old mangina upper management and they don't really take kindly folks like me over there. It is a good environment for married men with kids who want action on the side, while still projecting a reputable image to the company.Mate you must be working in hospitality or retail. Office girls only haw for the managers
Yep, the only problem with it is that we all have a goal of sleeping with these women and they will rarely fulfill this. The established fact of you wanting to sleep with them is alone enough to get them off, because validation is the end goal. They dont really want you as a person, only a part of you. You can easily sh!t test these broads and everything becomes pretty clear.the only way to get anything out of her is to manipulate her, like ignoring her until she does what you want, that's standard attention ***** stuff because if they're getting attention they want nothing from you but if they're not getting your attention and want it they'll do anything for it
So how do you give them what they want? If it's not d1ck they want, what is it?Yep, the only problem with it is that we all have a goal of sleeping with these women and they will rarely fulfill this. The established fact of you wanting to sleep with them is alone enough to get them off, because validation is the end goal. They dont really want you as a person, only a part of you. You can easily sh!t test these broads and everything becomes pretty clear.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.