Roman McNeil
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Hey guys I'm having problems finding out if a woman is a attention *****. What are so sign a woman is a attention *****?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Signs a women is a attention *****
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Glassguy
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1.) Constantly seeking validation on social media with selfies and other attention seeking pics.
2.) Glued to her phone
3.) Wont tie herself down by accepting a date offer, yet continues the conversation because she wants as many options as possible.
4.) Lots of "guy" friends. They normally hit you with "I just get along with guys better than most of my girl friends".
5.) Once they get the attention they are seeking and get self validation, they go cold. After all, they got what they wanted.
2.) Glued to her phone
3.) Wont tie herself down by accepting a date offer, yet continues the conversation because she wants as many options as possible.
4.) Lots of "guy" friends. They normally hit you with "I just get along with guys better than most of my girl friends".
5.) Once they get the attention they are seeking and get self validation, they go cold. After all, they got what they wanted.
RichardTheFrog
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She will dye her hair stupid colors.
She will wear skimpy clothes.
She will wear skimpy clothes.
TheGambino
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Validation and attention is All shes looking for, keeping orbiters to laugh with her friends about them
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
#4 could also be a cluster b trait.
The most obvious sign is you are not getting what you want from her.
She will say all the right things, but when it comes to execution you get nothing. Her excuses will be very believable too. Don't fall for it.
Remember this.. with women you are either on the same page or you're not. When you're on the same page, you will get what you want. When you're not on the same page, you will get wasted time, bullsh*t excuses, doubt, confusion, flaking, etc.
Do you feel like you are CHASING her even when she is right in front of you? If so she is probably an attention wh0re.
RangerMIke
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All chicks like male attention.
She won't make a date with you and won't fvck you, then you have a chick that only wants attention from you.
She won't make a date with you and won't fvck you, then you have a chick that only wants attention from you.
Roman McNeil
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Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Roman McNeil
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When I mean online I mean dating website?
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Easy. Just pull up her Instagram (or Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter, etc.) account. How many selfies has she posted? 1 or 2 out of dozens? Safe. Hundreds? Run for the fvcking hills man (or just smash and dash / pump and dump). I learned that lesson the hard way this year. Never again.
Is she constantly posting pictures / modeling photos from beaches, pool, with her dog/cat? Dumb duck face photos. Any picture to boast her having fun that screams "LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME! (OMG I'M SO HOT. I'M A 10. I HAVE A MILLION ORBITERS WAITING TO HOOK UP WITH ME)."
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Only look for these three and it'll tell you everything you need to know:
Does she have guy friends?
She loves just having fun and doing what feels right
Is she completely and unabashedly honest (hard to gage if you don't know what to look for)
You'll find that most women fail at least one of these. Make sure you test her objectively so you can get the truth otherwise you'll just get what she thinks u want to hear.
She won't give her phone number and she doesn't ask you any questions about yourself.
PapiChulo
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I work with some extreme attention wh res. One showed me her tits, and the other two I routinely grab on the butt and pretty much everywhere else. All are married, and I haven't banged any of them. They are attracted to me in some ways, but will leave no opportunity for me where I could take advantage of them. Poor husbands of theirs is what I am thinking.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
devilkingx2
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the only way to get anything out of her is to manipulate her, like ignoring her until she does what you want, that's standard attention ***** stuff because if they're getting attention they want nothing from you but if they're not getting your attention and want it they'll do anything for it
PapiChulo
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Close. It's a medium size company with 500 employees, about half of them being women. It's also run by really old mangina upper management and they don't really take kindly folks like me over there. It is a good environment for married men with kids who want action on the side, while still projecting a reputable image to the company.
PapiChulo
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Yep, the only problem with it is that we all have a goal of sleeping with these women and they will rarely fulfill this. The established fact of you wanting to sleep with them is alone enough to get them off, because validation is the end goal. They dont really want you as a person, only a part of you. You can easily sh!t test these broads and everything becomes pretty clear.
RichardTheFrog
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So how do you give them what they want? If it's not d1ck they want, what is it?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.