Roman McNeil
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Hey guys I'm having problems finding out if a woman is a attention *****. What are so sign a woman is a attention *****?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
#4 could also be a cluster b trait.1.) Constantly seeking validation on social media with selfies and other attention seeking pics.
2.) Glued to her phone
3.) Wont tie herself down by accepting a date offer, yet continues the conversation because she wants as many options as possible.
4.) Lots of "guy" friends. They normally hit you with "I just get along with guys better than most of my girl friends".
5.) Once they get the attention they are seeking and get self validation, they go cold. After all, they got what they wanted.
The most obvious sign is you are not getting what you want from her.Hey guys I'm having problems finding out if a woman is a attention *****. What are so sign a woman is a attention *****?
Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.The most obvious sign is you are not getting what you want from her.
She will say all the right things, but when it comes to execution you get nothing. Her excuses will be very believable too. Don't fall for it.
Remember this.. with women you are either on the same page or you're not. When you're on the same page, you will get what you want. When you're not on the same page, you will get wasted time, bullsh*t excuses, doubt, confusion, flaking, etc.
Do you feel like you are CHASING her even when she is right in front of you? If so she is probably an attention wh0re.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When I mean online I mean dating website?Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.
Easy. Just pull up her Instagram (or Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter, etc.) account. How many selfies has she posted? 1 or 2 out of dozens? Safe. Hundreds? Run for the fvcking hills man (or just smash and dash / pump and dump). I learned that lesson the hard way this year. Never again.Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.
Only look for these three and it'll tell you everything you need to know:Hey guys I'm having problems finding out if a woman is a attention *****. What are so sign a woman is a attention *****?
She won't give her phone number and she doesn't ask you any questions about yourself.Yea I do I understand the signs now. But what are some signs she a attention ***** online? Cause ever woman I message on there waste my time.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Close. It's a medium size company with 500 employees, about half of them being women. It's also run by really old mangina upper management and they don't really take kindly folks like me over there. It is a good environment for married men with kids who want action on the side, while still projecting a reputable image to the company.Mate you must be working in hospitality or retail. Office girls only haw for the managers
Yep, the only problem with it is that we all have a goal of sleeping with these women and they will rarely fulfill this. The established fact of you wanting to sleep with them is alone enough to get them off, because validation is the end goal. They dont really want you as a person, only a part of you. You can easily sh!t test these broads and everything becomes pretty clear.the only way to get anything out of her is to manipulate her, like ignoring her until she does what you want, that's standard attention ***** stuff because if they're getting attention they want nothing from you but if they're not getting your attention and want it they'll do anything for it
So how do you give them what they want? If it's not d1ck they want, what is it?Yep, the only problem with it is that we all have a goal of sleeping with these women and they will rarely fulfill this. The established fact of you wanting to sleep with them is alone enough to get them off, because validation is the end goal. They dont really want you as a person, only a part of you. You can easily sh!t test these broads and everything becomes pretty clear.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.