"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Signing off the right thing to do?

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Just wondering if this was the DJ thing to do:

So I was working on homework and a website of mine when a LJBF girl I keep around IMs me. She just got back from up north with this other girl who recently moved away and was her best friend and wanted me to come over to see her. Now I don't practically like the girl myself and am very devoted to my work, not to mention its a little late right now. This is the conversation that came about:

Her: AB500!!!
Me: whats up
Her: OMG girlx IS HERE YOU SHOULD COME OVER AND YOU TWO CAN HUG CAUSE YOU HAVENT SEEN HER
Me: errm... I'm busy at the moment, besides its kinda late
Her: thats cold
Her: some friend you are
Her: a real friend would come over
Me: mmk.. I don't really feel like listening to this **** right now so I'm going to sign off. night.

I sent the last one and signed off as she was typing yet another bull****ty sentence about how cold I was being.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how far is it,
how important is it that you finish that work now,
and why do u think there was no sarcasm ?
 
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....its just next door :p

This chick knows I'm devoted to my work though.. and this homework is like mega important due tomorrow type stuff.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by AB500
....its just next door :p

This chick knows I'm devoted to my work though.. and this homework is like mega important due tomorrow type stuff.
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oh if its next door you shoulda told them both to come over, and ****ed em both.
instead u rejected :(
 
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LJBF girl won't let me **** her and the other one is ugly...
 
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"If she wants the hug so much, she should come over here."

-Insert some excuse by the other girl.

"Some friend she is."

BURNED
 
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Originally posted by AB500
LJBF girl won't let me **** her and the other one is ugly...
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well then u shuda said to come over and u wuda ***** slapped them both.
 
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