"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Signing off the right thing to do?

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Just wondering if this was the DJ thing to do:

So I was working on homework and a website of mine when a LJBF girl I keep around IMs me. She just got back from up north with this other girl who recently moved away and was her best friend and wanted me to come over to see her. Now I don't practically like the girl myself and am very devoted to my work, not to mention its a little late right now. This is the conversation that came about:

Her: AB500!!!
Me: whats up
Her: OMG girlx IS HERE YOU SHOULD COME OVER AND YOU TWO CAN HUG CAUSE YOU HAVENT SEEN HER
Me: errm... I'm busy at the moment, besides its kinda late
Her: thats cold
Her: some friend you are
Her: a real friend would come over
Me: mmk.. I don't really feel like listening to this **** right now so I'm going to sign off. night.

I sent the last one and signed off as she was typing yet another bull****ty sentence about how cold I was being.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how far is it,
how important is it that you finish that work now,
and why do u think there was no sarcasm ?
 
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....its just next door :p

This chick knows I'm devoted to my work though.. and this homework is like mega important due tomorrow type stuff.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by AB500
....its just next door :p

This chick knows I'm devoted to my work though.. and this homework is like mega important due tomorrow type stuff.
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oh if its next door you shoulda told them both to come over, and ****ed em both.
instead u rejected :(
 
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LJBF girl won't let me **** her and the other one is ugly...
 
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"If she wants the hug so much, she should come over here."

-Insert some excuse by the other girl.

"Some friend she is."

BURNED
 
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Originally posted by AB500
LJBF girl won't let me **** her and the other one is ugly...
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well then u shuda said to come over and u wuda ***** slapped them both.
 
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