"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sigh I am soooo hot for Gio Casinova....
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Sexy_Malibu
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Oh please. Lame people across the globe say "hella". Even here in NY.
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Cause I like it, and I want to live in California. Well maybe and/or Michigan.
Wherever the wind blows I guess."She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DreamyChick
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I assure you Gio is a real person and I am a real person and he can vouch for that.
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true, ive cringed at a few aussies ive overheard saying it aswell.
mind you i was watching that john mayor when he came over here to tour or something and i must say the chicks do go gooey over him, makes me wonder if he uses his perks gene simmons style.
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I just really like his lyrics, they're catchy and they make me think. One day I pulled up a site that had some stuff from his concert and I was very shocked. He had completely changed the words around and was singing about penis and balls or something like that. My innocent view of him definitely went out the window, but I still dig his style. Oh well.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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and yall haters thought there was no use for girls at this site!!!
high five gio and dreamy! so gio, did you fly out to ga to see dreamy? awww, how romantic....
us D-town playas is the craziest!!!
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Isn't it though? Yeah he and I had a love-hate thing going there for awhile, but he's won me over.Originally posted by iqqi
whaaaaat!?!?!?!? gio! and dreamy! i seen that coming, but damn!
and yall haters thought there was no use for girls at this site!!!
high five gio and dreamy! so gio, did you fly out to ga to see dreamy? awww, how romantic....
us D-town playas is the craziest!!!
Thanks for the support~!Giovanni Casanova
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Quite the contrary, really. I have LOTS of uses for women.
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Night all..."You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
CyranoDeBergerac
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No. no. no. no. no. no. Some women are a valuable addition to this site. Its just that we have no use for vapid attention seeking s.perm-receptacles like...well, I'll be nice and not name any names. After-all I wouldn't want to hurt your feelings now would I?Originally posted by iqqi
whaaaaat!?!?!?!? gio! and dreamy! i seen that coming, but damn!
and yall haters thought there was no use for girls at this site!!!
high five gio and dreamy! so gio, did you fly out to ga to see dreamy? awww, how romantic....
us D-town playas is the craziest!!!
Hmmmmm..... In the name of all two faced jackasses,....isn't this the same sacless meathead that was foaming at the mouth, and attacked my reply when I had something to say about fukkyn puss on this site...
Nothin better to do than sling snott all day.
Hey you spineless bag of waste, in your haste to prove your command of the English language, you forget one thing.
Edge doesn't give a flying phukk what you think of him... So don't waste your time baiting. I know I won't ....
Respectfully submitted...
E. Banderas
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Whoa I am confused???? What's with the war? Who was that comment to?Originally posted by The Edge
Hmmmmm..... In the name of all two faced jackasses,....isn't this the same sacless meathead that was foaming at the mouth, and attacked my reply when I had something to say about fukkyn puss on this site...
Nothin better to do than sling snott all day.
Hey you spineless bag of waste, in your haste to prove your command of the English language, you forget one thing.
Edge doesn't give a flying phukk what you think of him... So don't waste your time baiting. I know I won't ....
Respectfully submitted...
E. Banderas
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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