how was that determinedOriginally posted by Ice Cold
Psst: guys!
Gio and DreamyChick are actually the same little fat bald guy.
The IPs match
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
how was that determinedOriginally posted by Ice Cold
Psst: guys!
Gio and DreamyChick are actually the same little fat bald guy.
The IPs match
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Oh please. Lame people across the globe say "hella". Even here in NY.Originally posted by MVPlaya
Dreamy Chick aka Gio,
You're from Georgia yet you say "hella" (in your sig), I thought only us Californians, Northern Californians for that matter, said that.
Cause I like it, and I want to live in California. Well maybe and/or Michigan.Originally posted by MVPlaya
Dreamy Chick aka Gio,
You're from Georgia yet you say "hella" (in your sig), I thought only us Californians, Northern Californians for that matter, said that.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I assure you Gio is a real person and I am a real person and he can vouch for that.Originally posted by crazykid
Checked both IP addresses...They don't match.
true, ive cringed at a few aussies ive overheard saying it aswell.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Oh please. Lame people across the globe say "hella". Even here in NY.
I just really like his lyrics, they're catchy and they make me think. One day I pulled up a site that had some stuff from his concert and I was very shocked. He had completely changed the words around and was singing about penis and balls or something like that. My innocent view of him definitely went out the window, but I still dig his style. Oh well.Originally posted by ( . )( . )
true, ive cringed at a few aussies ive overheard saying it aswell.
mind you i was watching that john mayor when he came over here to tour or something and i must say the chicks do go gooey over him, makes me wonder if he uses his perks gene simmons style.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Isn't it though? Yeah he and I had a love-hate thing going there for awhile, but he's won me over.Originally posted by iqqi
whaaaaat!?!?!?!? gio! and dreamy! i seen that coming, but damn!
and yall haters thought there was no use for girls at this site!!!
high five gio and dreamy! so gio, did you fly out to ga to see dreamy? awww, how romantic....![]()
us D-town playas is the craziest!!!![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No. no. no. no. no. no. Some women are a valuable addition to this site. Its just that we have no use for vapid attention seeking s.perm-receptacles like...well, I'll be nice and not name any names. After-all I wouldn't want to hurt your feelings now would I?Originally posted by iqqi
whaaaaat!?!?!?!? gio! and dreamy! i seen that coming, but damn!
and yall haters thought there was no use for girls at this site!!!
high five gio and dreamy! so gio, did you fly out to ga to see dreamy? awww, how romantic....![]()
us D-town playas is the craziest!!!![]()
Hmmmmm..... In the name of all two faced jackasses,....isn't this the same sacless meathead that was foaming at the mouth, and attacked my reply when I had something to say about fukkyn puss on this site...Originally posted by CyranoDeBergerac
No. no. no. no. no. no. Some women are a valuable addition to this site. Its just that we have no use for vapid attention seeking s.perm-receptacles like...well, I'll be nice and not name any names. After-all I wouldn't want to hurt your feelings now would I?
Whoa I am confused???? What's with the war? Who was that comment to?Originally posted by The Edge
Hmmmmm..... In the name of all two faced jackasses,....isn't this the same sacless meathead that was foaming at the mouth, and attacked my reply when I had something to say about fukkyn puss on this site...
Nothin better to do than sling snott all day.
Hey you spineless bag of waste, in your haste to prove your command of the English language, you forget one thing.
Edge doesn't give a flying phukk what you think of him... So don't waste your time baiting. I know I won't ....
Respectfully submitted...
E. Banderas
*cracks*Originally posted by iqqi
so gio, did you fly out to ga to see dreamy? awww, how romantic....![]()
More like, how sad!Internet love... how romantic!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.