"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Sigh I am soooo hot for Gio Casinova....
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sexy_Malibu
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Oh please. Lame people across the globe say "hella". Even here in NY.
DreamyChick
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Cause I like it, and I want to live in California. Well maybe and/or Michigan.
Wherever the wind blows I guess."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DreamyChick
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I assure you Gio is a real person and I am a real person and he can vouch for that.
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true, ive cringed at a few aussies ive overheard saying it aswell.
mind you i was watching that john mayor when he came over here to tour or something and i must say the chicks do go gooey over him, makes me wonder if he uses his perks gene simmons style.
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I just really like his lyrics, they're catchy and they make me think. One day I pulled up a site that had some stuff from his concert and I was very shocked. He had completely changed the words around and was singing about penis and balls or something like that. My innocent view of him definitely went out the window, but I still dig his style. Oh well.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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and yall haters thought there was no use for girls at this site!!!
high five gio and dreamy! so gio, did you fly out to ga to see dreamy? awww, how romantic....
us D-town playas is the craziest!!!
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Isn't it though? Yeah he and I had a love-hate thing going there for awhile, but he's won me over.Originally posted by iqqi
whaaaaat!?!?!?!? gio! and dreamy! i seen that coming, but damn!
and yall haters thought there was no use for girls at this site!!!
high five gio and dreamy! so gio, did you fly out to ga to see dreamy? awww, how romantic....
us D-town playas is the craziest!!!
Thanks for the support~!Giovanni Casanova
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Quite the contrary, really. I have LOTS of uses for women.
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Night all..."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
CyranoDeBergerac
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No. no. no. no. no. no. Some women are a valuable addition to this site. Its just that we have no use for vapid attention seeking s.perm-receptacles like...well, I'll be nice and not name any names. After-all I wouldn't want to hurt your feelings now would I?Originally posted by iqqi
whaaaaat!?!?!?!? gio! and dreamy! i seen that coming, but damn!
and yall haters thought there was no use for girls at this site!!!
high five gio and dreamy! so gio, did you fly out to ga to see dreamy? awww, how romantic....
us D-town playas is the craziest!!!
Hmmmmm..... In the name of all two faced jackasses,....isn't this the same sacless meathead that was foaming at the mouth, and attacked my reply when I had something to say about fukkyn puss on this site...
Nothin better to do than sling snott all day.
Hey you spineless bag of waste, in your haste to prove your command of the English language, you forget one thing.
Edge doesn't give a flying phukk what you think of him... So don't waste your time baiting. I know I won't ....
Respectfully submitted...
E. Banderas
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Whoa I am confused???? What's with the war? Who was that comment to?Originally posted by The Edge
Hmmmmm..... In the name of all two faced jackasses,....isn't this the same sacless meathead that was foaming at the mouth, and attacked my reply when I had something to say about fukkyn puss on this site...
Nothin better to do than sling snott all day.
Hey you spineless bag of waste, in your haste to prove your command of the English language, you forget one thing.
Edge doesn't give a flying phukk what you think of him... So don't waste your time baiting. I know I won't ....
Respectfully submitted...
E. Banderas
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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