"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sick excuse, my response?

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There is this girl who I used to work with last summer, she's very hot and she KNOWS it (she's also younger, 20).

We also had a very flirty relationship, but nothing ever happened.

Then she hit me up this summer, end of August, we got together had some drinks and had a fun time.

We made vague plans to hang out again, but she doesn't contact me I don't contact her, I for one starting escalating in a casual relationship with another girl, which just ended last Thursday.

So I wasted no time - on Friday I saw it was this first girl's bday on FB, I sent her text, saying Happy birthday, lets go celebrate.

She says "I'm outta town until Saturday but we should definitely celebrate"

I say Karoake next week (which we both like)
She says, "maybe Tuesday?"
I say, Tuesday should work for me gotta make sure I'm not working.

Hit her up last night (monday) saying what is better for you Tuesday or Thursday.
She replies this morning:
"I'm sick as a dog right now, haven't gotten up in like 15hrs.."

I figure if she's feeling better by Thursday, we should go out. But I'm hesitate to suggest that or anything and maybe should just wait to see if makes a plan and if not forget her.

What would you do?
 

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Just text back "Hope you feel better soon, see you when you're good"
Then put her out of your mind and work on other girls.
 
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Yup, the balls in her court, let her call back. Until then, do as the others say and move forward in your journey of conquering other women.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I wouldn't ask her out again unless she brings it up. She knows you want to go out since you keep asking her. Being pushy will get you more sick excuses.
 
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