"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is this girl who I used to work with last summer, she's very hot and she KNOWS it (she's also younger, 20).

We also had a very flirty relationship, but nothing ever happened.

Then she hit me up this summer, end of August, we got together had some drinks and had a fun time.

We made vague plans to hang out again, but she doesn't contact me I don't contact her, I for one starting escalating in a casual relationship with another girl, which just ended last Thursday.

So I wasted no time - on Friday I saw it was this first girl's bday on FB, I sent her text, saying Happy birthday, lets go celebrate.

She says "I'm outta town until Saturday but we should definitely celebrate"

I say Karoake next week (which we both like)
She says, "maybe Tuesday?"
I say, Tuesday should work for me gotta make sure I'm not working.

Hit her up last night (monday) saying what is better for you Tuesday or Thursday.
She replies this morning:
"I'm sick as a dog right now, haven't gotten up in like 15hrs.."

I figure if she's feeling better by Thursday, we should go out. But I'm hesitate to suggest that or anything and maybe should just wait to see if makes a plan and if not forget her.

What would you do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just text back "Hope you feel better soon, see you when you're good"
Then put her out of your mind and work on other girls.
 
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latinnova

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Yup, the balls in her court, let her call back. Until then, do as the others say and move forward in your journey of conquering other women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wouldn't ask her out again unless she brings it up. She knows you want to go out since you keep asking her. Being pushy will get you more sick excuses.
 
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