"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sick excuse, my response?

Johnnymahoe

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There is this girl who I used to work with last summer, she's very hot and she KNOWS it (she's also younger, 20).

We also had a very flirty relationship, but nothing ever happened.

Then she hit me up this summer, end of August, we got together had some drinks and had a fun time.

We made vague plans to hang out again, but she doesn't contact me I don't contact her, I for one starting escalating in a casual relationship with another girl, which just ended last Thursday.

So I wasted no time - on Friday I saw it was this first girl's bday on FB, I sent her text, saying Happy birthday, lets go celebrate.

She says "I'm outta town until Saturday but we should definitely celebrate"

I say Karoake next week (which we both like)
She says, "maybe Tuesday?"
I say, Tuesday should work for me gotta make sure I'm not working.

Hit her up last night (monday) saying what is better for you Tuesday or Thursday.
She replies this morning:
"I'm sick as a dog right now, haven't gotten up in like 15hrs.."

I figure if she's feeling better by Thursday, we should go out. But I'm hesitate to suggest that or anything and maybe should just wait to see if makes a plan and if not forget her.

What would you do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cremasta

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Just text back "Hope you feel better soon, see you when you're good"
Then put her out of your mind and work on other girls.
 

latinnova

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Yup, the balls in her court, let her call back. Until then, do as the others say and move forward in your journey of conquering other women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Octogonal

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I wouldn't ask her out again unless she brings it up. She knows you want to go out since you keep asking her. Being pushy will get you more sick excuses.
 
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