I was reading TonytheTiger's thread (1-1000) and he says he was talking to someone who was shy and told him it might be good to approach women and say you are shy and blush. Is this true? It seems like it is contrary to being confident. Can you use shyness to your advantage, or is it something that you must always get over?
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Shyness good?
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the thing is...if you approach and girl and tell her that your shy, then REALLY, you're not that shy. It works cause your teasing and giving her mized messages. But if you're shy, don't worry too much about it. The important thing is not to turn into some extroverted sonnavb*tch, but to get rid of your fears of social situations.
-Embrace your nature-
-Embrace your nature-
the thing is...if you approach and girl and tell her that your shy, then REALLY, you're not that shy. It works cause your teasing and giving her mized messages. But if you're shy, don't worry too much about it. The important thing is not to turn into some extroverted sonnavb*tch, but to get rid of your fears of social situations.
-Embrace your nature-
-Embrace your nature-
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I think your actions will speak louder then your words. In which case she will think you aren't shy.
I wouldn't try it because it isn't something a man would say and could encourage her attempts at controlling you.
I think the shy comment is being used as a buffer so she isn't as harsh at rejecting you.
just be a man she'll find that more attractive.
just my 0.0002p
I wouldn't try it because it isn't something a man would say and could encourage her attempts at controlling you.
I think the shy comment is being used as a buffer so she isn't as harsh at rejecting you.
just be a man she'll find that more attractive.
just my 0.0002p
assasin
Don Juan
What's the punch line?
I'm shy... so will you get undressed first?
I'm shy... so you'd better kiss me quick before I run away!
I'm shy... but I've got a big ****!
(Wait for the patronising "Awww", timing and delivery is everything on these!)
I'm shy... so will you get undressed first?
I'm shy... so you'd better kiss me quick before I run away!
I'm shy... but I've got a big ****!
(Wait for the patronising "Awww", timing and delivery is everything on these!)
spider_007
Master Don Juan
SHY, no, QUIET but confident, yes
Shy can work for you very well. Shy often works on very confident agressive girls.
The same way confidence works on insecure girls.
As people we look for someone to compliment and supplement us, and sometimes that calls for someone who is the opposite of us, and sometimes that is to find someone who is just like us.
See, you have to be able to size up a girl, if she is in a good mood, use that play on that. If she is in a bad mood, use that to your advantage.
I know I keep repeating myself, but a good DJ can size up a girl and her situaton in about 10 seconds and develop an approch and tactic that works. There is no one method.
****y funny will work on girls in a good mood, but pull that **** on a chick in a bad mood and you will be going home alone and branded an *******.
The same way confidence works on insecure girls.
As people we look for someone to compliment and supplement us, and sometimes that calls for someone who is the opposite of us, and sometimes that is to find someone who is just like us.
See, you have to be able to size up a girl, if she is in a good mood, use that play on that. If she is in a bad mood, use that to your advantage.
I know I keep repeating myself, but a good DJ can size up a girl and her situaton in about 10 seconds and develop an approch and tactic that works. There is no one method.
****y funny will work on girls in a good mood, but pull that **** on a chick in a bad mood and you will be going home alone and branded an *******.