"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shy Women

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Then they look to you for entertainment every time. Way too much work for me.

i definitely know all about this problem. It really is a pain in the neck when they're too damn quiet to carry on their half of the conversation or w/e.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah shy b1tches are the worst...
 

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I would agree, I can't get anything out of a shy woman. So I'm asking, how do I get these kind of women to repsond to my seduction? It's almost like trying to talk to a brick wall.
 

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Just do like Lastman and I said.

But if they're too quiet or shy that you can't have any fun with them regardless of how they feel about you, ditch them. (Unless you just want them for temporary sex, in which case you're out of luck. Go find a wh0re instead.)
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Shy women get very attached and clingy to you if they depend on you to run their lives..
This could be seen as an advantage to some. I like shy girls because I think I can make them more confident in themselves, and they are very dependable and predictable. I'm not the type that likes rollercoaster relationships. Often times these girls are very intelligent, which I like, and if you find one thats hot, youre set.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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agreed, I think shy is usually the way to go if you can pull it off. Like I said, tho, you have to distinguish between "shy" and "annoyingly quiet." The quiet ones are the ones who you won't be able to carry on any kind of conversation with, even after you get to know them.
 

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i think a lot of girls when they are out with friends are really quiet and wont talk much, but if its just you two and they are comfortable they tend to open up a bit more, plus they are potentially less work hassle
 

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Everyone has fire in them you just have to learn how to make her passion take over... The will to reproduce is strong and people that suppress it usually burn with the brightest...

What I’m basically saying is that you have to find a way to get her to open up to you and that might involve using “unintentional” complements to boost her ego (the reverse from negs but even more subtle), once you do that if you show an aura of grandeur (try a ****y + funny approach). This way in her mind she is formulating that you are an alpha male and that whenever she is around you she feels more confident, but remember not to put the bait too high or too low or she will lose interest. The way you play will influence the result you will get…

Hope I was of some use

Love

Amethyst

P.D. Need more help just send me a PM explaining the details and I might be able to point you in the right direction...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So pretty much, they need to be romanced a bit more traditionally than normal women. Correct?
 
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