"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Then they look to you for entertainment every time. Way too much work for me.

i definitely know all about this problem. It really is a pain in the neck when they're too damn quiet to carry on their half of the conversation or w/e.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah shy b1tches are the worst...
 

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I would agree, I can't get anything out of a shy woman. So I'm asking, how do I get these kind of women to repsond to my seduction? It's almost like trying to talk to a brick wall.
 

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Just do like Lastman and I said.

But if they're too quiet or shy that you can't have any fun with them regardless of how they feel about you, ditch them. (Unless you just want them for temporary sex, in which case you're out of luck. Go find a wh0re instead.)
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Shy women get very attached and clingy to you if they depend on you to run their lives..
This could be seen as an advantage to some. I like shy girls because I think I can make them more confident in themselves, and they are very dependable and predictable. I'm not the type that likes rollercoaster relationships. Often times these girls are very intelligent, which I like, and if you find one thats hot, youre set.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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agreed, I think shy is usually the way to go if you can pull it off. Like I said, tho, you have to distinguish between "shy" and "annoyingly quiet." The quiet ones are the ones who you won't be able to carry on any kind of conversation with, even after you get to know them.
 

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i think a lot of girls when they are out with friends are really quiet and wont talk much, but if its just you two and they are comfortable they tend to open up a bit more, plus they are potentially less work hassle
 

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Everyone has fire in them you just have to learn how to make her passion take over... The will to reproduce is strong and people that suppress it usually burn with the brightest...

What I’m basically saying is that you have to find a way to get her to open up to you and that might involve using “unintentional” complements to boost her ego (the reverse from negs but even more subtle), once you do that if you show an aura of grandeur (try a ****y + funny approach). This way in her mind she is formulating that you are an alpha male and that whenever she is around you she feels more confident, but remember not to put the bait too high or too low or she will lose interest. The way you play will influence the result you will get…

Hope I was of some use

Love

Amethyst

P.D. Need more help just send me a PM explaining the details and I might be able to point you in the right direction...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So pretty much, they need to be romanced a bit more traditionally than normal women. Correct?
 
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