"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shy Girls

anile8

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hi guys
there is this chick that is very shy and she goes to a different school. What do you think is the best way to approach it. I have her msn
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just IMing some chick out of the blue... Sure.. you'll talk to her online, but if she's shy, then she'll just ignore you in real life and she might open up to you just online. If I were you I'd approach her in real-life first! Just make her comfortable around you and be yourself dude. Good luck
 

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All u have to do is come up to her as to any other chik!! and if she is shy wouldnt that make ur life easier. Everything u say to her will not be embarising becouse she is shy herself.! so mate just come to her and act like a DJ. Flirt with her, tell her funny stuff, that way she will get more attracted to u than she already is! GOOD LUCk
 

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shydude said:
All u have to do is come up to her as to any other chik!! and if she is shy wouldnt that make ur life easier. Everything u say to her will not be embarising becouse she is shy herself.! so mate just come to her and act like a DJ. Flirt with her, tell her funny stuff, that way she will get more attracted to u than she already is! GOOD LUCk
Please STOP giving BAD advice. A girl being shy doesnt make ANYTHING easier. If he does what he would do to a attractive outgoing girl its gonna make her uncomfortable. Shy girls take more time to open up, hence its not easier, dousche.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Please STOP giving BAD advice. A girl being shy doesnt make ANYTHING easier. If he does what he would do to a attractive outgoing girl its gonna make her uncomfortable. Shy girls take more time to open up, hence its not easier, dousche.
Actually, I used to be a shy guy... A girl started flirting with me and basically gave me all the right signs... I ended up liking her and gathered enough courage to ask my friend to tell her that I liked her (this was like 4 years ago)! I've improved WAY since then!

If this worked on me (a previously shy guy), I can kinda see how this will work with some shy chick.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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