Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Shy Girls

anile8

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hi guys
there is this chick that is very shy and she goes to a different school. What do you think is the best way to approach it. I have her msn
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OfficeSpace

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Just IMing some chick out of the blue... Sure.. you'll talk to her online, but if she's shy, then she'll just ignore you in real life and she might open up to you just online. If I were you I'd approach her in real-life first! Just make her comfortable around you and be yourself dude. Good luck
 

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All u have to do is come up to her as to any other chik!! and if she is shy wouldnt that make ur life easier. Everything u say to her will not be embarising becouse she is shy herself.! so mate just come to her and act like a DJ. Flirt with her, tell her funny stuff, that way she will get more attracted to u than she already is! GOOD LUCk
 

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shydude said:
All u have to do is come up to her as to any other chik!! and if she is shy wouldnt that make ur life easier. Everything u say to her will not be embarising becouse she is shy herself.! so mate just come to her and act like a DJ. Flirt with her, tell her funny stuff, that way she will get more attracted to u than she already is! GOOD LUCk
Please STOP giving BAD advice. A girl being shy doesnt make ANYTHING easier. If he does what he would do to a attractive outgoing girl its gonna make her uncomfortable. Shy girls take more time to open up, hence its not easier, dousche.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Please STOP giving BAD advice. A girl being shy doesnt make ANYTHING easier. If he does what he would do to a attractive outgoing girl its gonna make her uncomfortable. Shy girls take more time to open up, hence its not easier, dousche.
Actually, I used to be a shy guy... A girl started flirting with me and basically gave me all the right signs... I ended up liking her and gathered enough courage to ask my friend to tell her that I liked her (this was like 4 years ago)! I've improved WAY since then!

If this worked on me (a previously shy guy), I can kinda see how this will work with some shy chick.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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