"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hi guys
there is this chick that is very shy and she goes to a different school. What do you think is the best way to approach it. I have her msn
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just IMing some chick out of the blue... Sure.. you'll talk to her online, but if she's shy, then she'll just ignore you in real life and she might open up to you just online. If I were you I'd approach her in real-life first! Just make her comfortable around you and be yourself dude. Good luck
 
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All u have to do is come up to her as to any other chik!! and if she is shy wouldnt that make ur life easier. Everything u say to her will not be embarising becouse she is shy herself.! so mate just come to her and act like a DJ. Flirt with her, tell her funny stuff, that way she will get more attracted to u than she already is! GOOD LUCk
 
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shydude said:
All u have to do is come up to her as to any other chik!! and if she is shy wouldnt that make ur life easier. Everything u say to her will not be embarising becouse she is shy herself.! so mate just come to her and act like a DJ. Flirt with her, tell her funny stuff, that way she will get more attracted to u than she already is! GOOD LUCk
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Please STOP giving BAD advice. A girl being shy doesnt make ANYTHING easier. If he does what he would do to a attractive outgoing girl its gonna make her uncomfortable. Shy girls take more time to open up, hence its not easier, dousche.
 
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oakraiderz2 said:
Please STOP giving BAD advice. A girl being shy doesnt make ANYTHING easier. If he does what he would do to a attractive outgoing girl its gonna make her uncomfortable. Shy girls take more time to open up, hence its not easier, dousche.
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Actually, I used to be a shy guy... A girl started flirting with me and basically gave me all the right signs... I ended up liking her and gathered enough courage to ask my friend to tell her that I liked her (this was like 4 years ago)! I've improved WAY since then!

If this worked on me (a previously shy guy), I can kinda see how this will work with some shy chick.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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