"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Shy Girls
- Thread starter anile8
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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shydude
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oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Please STOP giving BAD advice. A girl being shy doesnt make ANYTHING easier. If he does what he would do to a attractive outgoing girl its gonna make her uncomfortable. Shy girls take more time to open up, hence its not easier, dousche.shydude said:All u have to do is come up to her as to any other chik!! and if she is shy wouldnt that make ur life easier. Everything u say to her will not be embarising becouse she is shy herself.! so mate just come to her and act like a DJ. Flirt with her, tell her funny stuff, that way she will get more attracted to u than she already is! GOOD LUCk
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Actually, I used to be a shy guy... A girl started flirting with me and basically gave me all the right signs... I ended up liking her and gathered enough courage to ask my friend to tell her that I liked her (this was like 4 years ago)! I've improved WAY since then!oakraiderz2 said:Please STOP giving BAD advice. A girl being shy doesnt make ANYTHING easier. If he does what he would do to a attractive outgoing girl its gonna make her uncomfortable. Shy girls take more time to open up, hence its not easier, dousche.
If this worked on me (a previously shy guy), I can kinda see how this will work with some shy chick.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.