"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shy girls

nice_guyeh

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Sup dooooodz?!

There is a new server at my work. Im a kitchen guy
She is dining staff

Very shy. Probably the most shy, soft spoken reaerved female i have met

She is opening up to me though, slowly, still shy as hell

Any advice from those of you who chose to pursure a shy girl?
Any input is appreciated

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zerro

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In my experience "shy" chicks tend to just be big time wasters. You'll think that they're just slow to open up, right until they start throwing themselves at some guy who isn't you.

If a chick's interested in you she'll make it rather obvious.
 

BowTie

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Take a chance, invite her out somewhere. I don't know your age, but perhaps invite her out to smoke some hookah or let her see your "dog" haha. Invite her out and report back, don't forget to kino!
 

TheStig

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I wouldn't say they are necessarily big time wasters (depends on the level of shyness). Like BowTie said, just invite her out to do something and see how she responds.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zekko

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Zerro said:
In my experience "shy" chicks tend to just be big time wasters. You'll think that they're just slow to open up, right until they start throwing themselves at some guy who isn't you.
This is kind of what I was thinking. Not that I have anything against shy girls, but maybe she just doesn't talk to you that much because she isn't interested.
 

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Shy, take it slow, not ready yet; not good signs. :(

A woman who is interested won't confuse you. Your best bet is to make a move and see how she responds. That will answer many of your questions in this case. That's my ruling. :up:

Case closed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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