"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shy girls

nice_guyeh

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Sup dooooodz?!

There is a new server at my work. Im a kitchen guy
She is dining staff

Very shy. Probably the most shy, soft spoken reaerved female i have met

She is opening up to me though, slowly, still shy as hell

Any advice from those of you who chose to pursure a shy girl?
Any input is appreciated

Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zerro

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In my experience "shy" chicks tend to just be big time wasters. You'll think that they're just slow to open up, right until they start throwing themselves at some guy who isn't you.

If a chick's interested in you she'll make it rather obvious.
 

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Take a chance, invite her out somewhere. I don't know your age, but perhaps invite her out to smoke some hookah or let her see your "dog" haha. Invite her out and report back, don't forget to kino!
 

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I wouldn't say they are necessarily big time wasters (depends on the level of shyness). Like BowTie said, just invite her out to do something and see how she responds.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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zekko

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Zerro said:
In my experience "shy" chicks tend to just be big time wasters. You'll think that they're just slow to open up, right until they start throwing themselves at some guy who isn't you.
This is kind of what I was thinking. Not that I have anything against shy girls, but maybe she just doesn't talk to you that much because she isn't interested.
 

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From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
Shy, take it slow, not ready yet; not good signs. :(

A woman who is interested won't confuse you. Your best bet is to make a move and see how she responds. That will answer many of your questions in this case. That's my ruling. :up:

Case closed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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