"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nice_guyeh

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Sup dooooodz?!

There is a new server at my work. Im a kitchen guy
She is dining staff

Very shy. Probably the most shy, soft spoken reaerved female i have met

She is opening up to me though, slowly, still shy as hell

Any advice from those of you who chose to pursure a shy girl?
Any input is appreciated

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Zerro

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In my experience "shy" chicks tend to just be big time wasters. You'll think that they're just slow to open up, right until they start throwing themselves at some guy who isn't you.

If a chick's interested in you she'll make it rather obvious.
 

BowTie

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Take a chance, invite her out somewhere. I don't know your age, but perhaps invite her out to smoke some hookah or let her see your "dog" haha. Invite her out and report back, don't forget to kino!
 

TheStig

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I wouldn't say they are necessarily big time wasters (depends on the level of shyness). Like BowTie said, just invite her out to do something and see how she responds.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zekko

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Zerro said:
In my experience "shy" chicks tend to just be big time wasters. You'll think that they're just slow to open up, right until they start throwing themselves at some guy who isn't you.
This is kind of what I was thinking. Not that I have anything against shy girls, but maybe she just doesn't talk to you that much because she isn't interested.
 

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From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
Shy, take it slow, not ready yet; not good signs. :(

A woman who is interested won't confuse you. Your best bet is to make a move and see how she responds. That will answer many of your questions in this case. That's my ruling. :up:

Case closed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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