lol...I think he secretly wants a threesome with both of us.Originally posted by alphawolfx
No offense taken. You wanted to know what I rated myself, and to me, I'm an 8.
To you, I'm a 6. There go my chances of every picking YOU up.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
lol...I think he secretly wants a threesome with both of us.Originally posted by alphawolfx
No offense taken. You wanted to know what I rated myself, and to me, I'm an 8.
To you, I'm a 6. There go my chances of every picking YOU up.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Why doesn't that surprise me!!!I actually prefer AFCs...
Biotch, please...Originally posted by Don_Joffe
Wyldfire: Dont stray from the point at hand, you are a slut, deal with it.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
lol...I was being sarcastic. I typically end up with the extremely buff body building alpha male types who are into motorcycles...hence the "biker biotch" look in that one photo.Originally posted by MacDiddy
Why doesn't that surprise me!!!
That's just the shape of my face...but I am what you'd call "thick"...a somewhat atheltic frame with 34 DDs, a small waist, curvy hips and a butt a little on the big side (for counter-balance of the boobs). I'm definitely not a tiny anorexic looking thing, though. The first picture the lighting was awful...made me look very, very pale and made my hair look lighter than it actually was at the time. The second picture is more recent than the first one and is what I look like.Originally posted by TizZle
Wyldfire: it does look like you have nice umm melons in that first picture.. but as far as your face is concerned i think it may be on the chubby side from what i see in the 2nd picture. But confidence is all that matters just be happy with what u got.![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's your story...I'll let you tell it. I will say, however...the more you post the more pathetic you sound.Originally posted by Don_Joffe
At 39 years old I can count my sexual partners on one hand. I don't have sex outside of a relationship, never cheat and have remained abstinent for over 4 years because I don't want a relationship ---> I dont give a **** about your life. Well you either a slut or one desperate slut. I mean at age of 39, what the hell are you doing on a internet chat forum? Get a life...
Oh and by the way SLUT , its written all over your face and its written all over that cellulite you got.
Sorry, sugarbritches...but I post when and where I want. Go whine to someone who gives a sh*t what you think, because I don't.Originally posted by Don_Joffe
Wyldfire: Your a joke, get off these forums and find a life. I will be up for no further comment, goodnight.
Well, Tizzle, I was engaged to a wonderful man for a long time. He was killed. I found that due to those circumstances I just wasn't able to give what I feel is necessary to someone else in order to have a relationship. Since I don't have sex outside of a relationship, either...abstaining from sex goes hand in hand with abstaining from relationships.Originally posted by TizZle
no sex for over 4 yrs... holy crap... I guess i went 20 yrs but damn once you have sex it's like crack. Women want sex just as much as guys do. What is the deal woman? I know sex isn't everything but gee-wiz.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LMAO...the picture in the spandex was taken 6 weeks after giving birth...I looked f*cking good, lol! The lighting in the picture was bad and if you compare the two pictures...it's obvious the first one was just a bad picture.Originally posted by Don_Joffe
Wyldfire: Look at yourself you like like a 50 year old, bags under your eyes, wrinkles, it looks as though you are chomping at the bit to become a prostitue or a slave to men, do yourself a favour and lose the slut image. Do you honestly think you look good? I can see the cellulite from here. You finished with your dream yet?
alpha: Okay, point taken.
lol...I know I look good...Joffe's just mad because I look better than him.Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
Wyld,
I think you're hot, don't let these kids that think 20 year olds are old hags get to you!![]()
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.