"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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shut up about looks NOW

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Originally posted by TizZle
He would want you to move on. He is probably sitting up in the clouds wondering why you still loathe for him. You want that wonderful man but he is gone. You will not find another man exactly like him and you know this. What your partaking in is certainly not fair to yourself. He would not want you to be doing this to yourself. He will be in your mind forever but you need to move on if you are indeed abstaining from relationships because of his death. He would not want his death to set you back.

But who am i to say these things... True i'm just some stranger but what the hell that's what i felt like saying. If i'm wrong about this oh well.
"loathe" means "hate"...wrong choice of words, bud.

I have "moved on"...in a sense. I have feelings for someone who lives too far away for me to be with. So, now I have to move on from that before I'm able to get involved with anyone else. And honestly...I'm not at all needy and I'm perfectly happy without a relationship and for me, it's only the first month or so without sex that is rough. Although, I have to say that I'll likely HURT the next guy I DO have sex with. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Double
wyldfire plz behave!! this thread is about me detecting that friv is a fvcking liar and not about your repeating stories!:p
You know you love hearing me repeat myself...now back to your corner! You wanna keep those spankings friendly, don't ya? :D
 

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1. Wyld is pretty damn hot for a woman who's pushin' 40.

2. The guys who are *****in' at her are just showing their own insecurities.
 

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wanna play the femnazi now?? lol, i guess in reallife we would see who is really ****y and who is just a woman:D
 

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Wyldfire: As you have noticed who have made 3 or 4 posts to me and I havent responded once, I sense you are desperate to try "Beat Me" at the "Game." It wont happen. Like I said I wont be up for any further comment. Ive had my say about you, nothing has changed.

alakazm: You want to see my picture? Ill show you my pic and I will show you who is insecure.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"like a 50 year old"

He!!, my last gf was 60, and she was constantly hit on by 30yo men!!

(and I'm usually pegged in my late 30's early 40's!!)
 

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Originally posted by Double
wanna play the femnazi now?? lol, i guess in reallife we would see who is really ****y and who is just a woman:D
I'm actually an anti-feminist...but I am extremely sarcastic. That's the way my sense of humor is. You're taking my joking personally...and you shouldn't. It's not meant that way...I'm just kidding around. Besides...we all know you fantasize about my cattle prod every night! :D
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
Wyldfire: As you have noticed who have made 3 or 4 posts to me and I havent responded once, I sense you are desperate to try "Beat Me" at the "Game." It wont happen. Like I said I wont be up for any further comment. Ive had my say about you, nothing has changed.

My posts were responses to YOUR posts, dipsh*t, lol.

By the way...when you say you aren't going to respond to someone, turning around and posting something to them is kinda foolish. It shows you lack follow-through, are inconsistent and don't mean what you say. That's not the way you are supposed to behave...especially with women. Okay, it's time for you to stick to what you said you were going to do and shut up now.

It's been nice toying with you...

:D
 

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haha this thread is funny.

as you can see from my signature link, i'm ugly as sin. and i don't got inner game either. my secret lies in the "pity game".

see i go to the gym, and i make my body look disgusting and unpleasing to the eye, to the point where i'm like the elephant man and girls feel sorry for me. eventually when they see my exposed disgusting flesh as i hit the gym pools for a swim, they feel so sorry for me that they talk about how nasty i am with their friends, and end up coming up to me, talking to me, trying to console me. then they start to feel so sorry for me that they can't leave me alone.

inner game? looks? you don't need either, pity game is where it's at boys! buy my new e-book "BE DISGUSTING LIKE GOLLUM AND STILL GET LAID by MindOverMatter" for $299.99 so i can afford to live with all those PUAs in Holywood, and tap into their endless pool of club skanks with my pity game!
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
haha this thread is funny.

as you can see from my signature link, i'm ugly as sin. and i don't got inner game either. my secret lies in the "pity game".

see i go to the gym, and i make my body look disgusting and unpleasing to the eye, to the point where i'm like the elephant man and girls feel sorry for me. eventually when they see my exposed disgusting flesh as i hit the gym pools for a swim, they feel so sorry for me that they talk about how nasty i am with their friends, and end up coming up to me, talking to me, trying to console me. then they start to feel so sorry for me that they can't leave me alone.

inner game? looks? you don't need either, pity game is where it's at boys! buy my new e-book "BE DISGUSTING LIKE GOLLUM AND STILL GET LAID by MindOverMatter" for $299.99 so i can afford to live with all those PUAs in Holywood, and tap into their endless pool of club skanks with my pity game!
Ha! You can flex all you want Mr. Mind Over Matter...but your chest will NEVER be bigger than mine! Bwahahahahaha :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wyldfire - you look good for your age but this truly is an AFC world if guys are telling you that you look like you are between 25-30.
 

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Originally posted by Fatality
Wyldfire - you look good for your age but this truly is an AFC world if guys are telling you that you look like you are between 25-30.
Not just guys...both men and women. Keep in mind that I am only 5 feet tall. The fact that I'm really short adds to me already carrying my age well. It does make me look much younger than I am.
 

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Oh yeah??? Well I'm 20 and I only look 15!!! Beat that b*tch!
 

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Who the f*ck are you to call me an AFC?!? I guess jelousy makes u nasty? *sigh*

MetalFortress: I'm an AFC? bwahahahahahaha!!! I'll offer the same challenge to you that I have offered one or 2 others in the past.... If you want to call me an AFC, then I challenge you to come here and see if you can "Out Juan" me, if you can, then I will give you all that I own! And if I am an AFC, then how is it that I have people on these forums ASKING me to please look at their thread and reply because they saw how much I helped someone else in a different thread? I'll give u an example ( Click Here )

Me and Don Joffe are friends, NOT 1 person, as you claim. Now I would appreciate it if you would take your lame philosophies elsewhere.

EDIT: dont judje others if you dont know who they are, OR what they are capable of!


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hmmm...

Originally posted by Wyldfire
You have a cute face, but I don't like the preppy collar, high bangs and long sideburns. It's a little reminiscent of an Elvis impersonator.
:D

Oooh...Wyld neg-hits aequita HARDCORE!

bwahahahaha! ;)
lol... like i said, I was 17 at the time of that picture, in my opinion, and others, i look ALOT better now. I have longish hair, bearly any gel in it, abit taller, and a more "built" body... I'll post a more recent picture of myself in the near future for you to see for yourself;)


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Not true...I looked WAY better at 30 then I did when I was 18. I look better at 39 than I did at 18, too.
indeed, we weren't talkin' about 18, we were talkin' about 21.......... i said that when you hit 21 you are far better lookin than when you are younger, then at 30 you start become worse and worse... i didn't mention 18
 

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Re: hmmm..... =}

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Not bad:p ... What u think of my picture?:rolleyes:

EDIT: That picture if from nearly 2 years ago, I would send u newer pics to give your opinion on, but u have decided to not be able to recieve any emails, so i guess that pic will have to do;)


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somebody looks like a macho latino;) lol, not to sound gayish, but u r pretty cool:)
 

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fanx =}

Originally posted by Jay-X
somebody looks like a macho latino;) lol, not to sound gayish, but u r pretty cool:)
lol thanx bud;) Go well...


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Originally posted by Jay-X
indeed, we weren't talkin' about 18, we were talkin' about 21.......... i said that when you hit 21 you are far better lookin than when you are younger, then at 30 you start become worse and worse... i didn't mention 18
I looked better at 30 than I did at 21, too. I looked better at 18 than I did at 21, though. I started to look better at 28.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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