"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
shut up about looks NOW
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Why doesn't that surprise me!!!
Biotch, please...
At 39 years old I can count my sexual partners on one hand. I don't have sex outside of a relationship, never cheat and have remained abstinent for over 4 years because I don't want a relationship.
Like I said...slut doesn't fit. You need to learn that effective flaming and insulting of people must actually be true to bother them. But hey...if you want to be lame, all the more power to ya.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
Oh and by the way SLUT , its written all over your face and its written all over that cellulite you got.
That's just the shape of my face...but I am what you'd call "thick"...a somewhat atheltic frame with 34 DDs, a small waist, curvy hips and a butt a little on the big side (for counter-balance of the boobs). I'm definitely not a tiny anorexic looking thing, though. The first picture the lighting was awful...made me look very, very pale and made my hair look lighter than it actually was at the time. The second picture is more recent than the first one and is what I look like.Originally posted by TizZle
Wyldfire: it does look like you have nice umm melons in that first picture.. but as far as your face is concerned i think it may be on the chubby side from what i see in the 2nd picture. But confidence is all that matters just be happy with what u got.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's your story...I'll let you tell it. I will say, however...the more you post the more pathetic you sound.
You see...some of the little boys on here think by being a d*ck to anything with tits on here that posts that they are in some way impressing the other guys. In reality, though, it just makes you look weak.
Oh...and to be quite frank, Joffe...with all the tooting of your own horn you do on here and how successful you CLAIM to be with girls...you sure do post an awful lot. I'd think you'd be too busy to post with such proclivity if you were doing as well as you claim to be...but I digress.
If you do not like your looks, make yourself like them. Men aren't the ones who have to look all prim. We're the providers and protectors. So all you girly men stop being concerned about whether youre a 7 or a 6 or whatnot. Be who you are.
And to the proprieters of this ongoing internet insult fiasco - grow up.
Well, Tizzle, I was engaged to a wonderful man for a long time. He was killed. I found that due to those circumstances I just wasn't able to give what I feel is necessary to someone else in order to have a relationship. Since I don't have sex outside of a relationship, either...abstaining from sex goes hand in hand with abstaining from relationships.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
I think you're hot, don't let these kids that think 20 year olds are old hags get to you!
But who am i to say these things... True i'm just some stranger but what the hell that's what i felt like saying. If i'm wrong about this oh well.
LMAO...the picture in the spandex was taken 6 weeks after giving birth...I looked f*cking good, lol! The lighting in the picture was bad and if you compare the two pictures...it's obvious the first one was just a bad picture.
There are no bags under my eyes or wrinkles in that picture...and if I look 50 then why on earth do I constantly get told I look no older than 30? Some people even think I'm as young as 25. Hell, I sometimes get carded when I order a drink. You're just being a d*ck because you were offended by me joking around with you and saying "I'm hotter than you at twice your age". Jesus H. Christ, don't be so f*cking insecure and childish...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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