"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shut the HS forum? DJ LTR Forum?

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Two suggestions. No doubt one of them has been heard before.

1) Shut the HS forum. I've never read a bigger load of rubbish than in that forum in my entire life! Relevant threads could be transferred to Discussion.

2) Is there a need for a LTR forum? Theres plenty about short terms, but long terms are different and require a different attitude. There would be no shortage of people wanting to post I don't think.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nope.
 
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I think there should be a LTR Forum. That way all those people who have "next" on the tip of their tounge could just avoid it so the rest of us can get quality advice.
 
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The HS forum was made in part (I think) so that that kind of rubbish could be segregated. I mean come on, a teenager's life is full of angst anyway, right? Personally, I avoid that forum altogether, you can too.

As for a LTR forum, whatever the reason, it's not gonna happen here. Your best bet is to go to DJ LTR Forum which was created by some members of this forum who wanted to focus on LTRs.
 
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Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
I have a better idea!

Shut the all the forums on this site and leave only The Archives. Everything else has gone to shyt because it's infested with AFC's and Keyboard Jockies. :rolleyes:
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that works
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A picture says a 1000 words.
 
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Originally posted by SupaDupaAFC
A picture says a 1000 words.
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Im going to admit he doesnt look like the most masculine person in the world, but he actually tries, and has probably had more contact with women in the last week than you in your whole life....and i could bet on that, bc you must be pretty gay having a name like supadupaAFC...
 
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Do you really want all of the HS guys posting their problems the main DJ discussion? It's bad enough as it is. Hell, I've even seen a couple of high schoolers post questions in mature man.
 
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Firslty, there IS A LTR FORUM!! (see my sig)

Secondly, GodsGiftToWomen, when u coming to south africa? you aint pimped till u pimped with me:D


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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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