"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Shut the HS forum? DJ LTR Forum?

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Two suggestions. No doubt one of them has been heard before.

1) Shut the HS forum. I've never read a bigger load of rubbish than in that forum in my entire life! Relevant threads could be transferred to Discussion.

2) Is there a need for a LTR forum? Theres plenty about short terms, but long terms are different and require a different attitude. There would be no shortage of people wanting to post I don't think.

Any comments on this, Mods?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nope.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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I think there should be a LTR Forum. That way all those people who have "next" on the tip of their tounge could just avoid it so the rest of us can get quality advice.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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The HS forum was made in part (I think) so that that kind of rubbish could be segregated. I mean come on, a teenager's life is full of angst anyway, right? Personally, I avoid that forum altogether, you can too.

As for a LTR forum, whatever the reason, it's not gonna happen here. Your best bet is to go to DJ LTR Forum which was created by some members of this forum who wanted to focus on LTRs.
 

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Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
I have a better idea!

Shut the all the forums on this site and leave only The Archives. Everything else has gone to shyt because it's infested with AFC's and Keyboard Jockies. :rolleyes:
that works
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A picture says a 1000 words.
 

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Originally posted by SupaDupaAFC
A picture says a 1000 words.
Im going to admit he doesnt look like the most masculine person in the world, but he actually tries, and has probably had more contact with women in the last week than you in your whole life....and i could bet on that, bc you must be pretty gay having a name like supadupaAFC...
 

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Do you really want all of the HS guys posting their problems the main DJ discussion? It's bad enough as it is. Hell, I've even seen a couple of high schoolers post questions in mature man.
 

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Firslty, there IS A LTR FORUM!! (see my sig)

Secondly, GodsGiftToWomen, when u coming to south africa? you aint pimped till u pimped with me:D


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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