"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Shut the HS forum? DJ LTR Forum?

aftershock

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Two suggestions. No doubt one of them has been heard before.

1) Shut the HS forum. I've never read a bigger load of rubbish than in that forum in my entire life! Relevant threads could be transferred to Discussion.

2) Is there a need for a LTR forum? Theres plenty about short terms, but long terms are different and require a different attitude. There would be no shortage of people wanting to post I don't think.

Any comments on this, Mods?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tactic

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Nope.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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I think there should be a LTR Forum. That way all those people who have "next" on the tip of their tounge could just avoid it so the rest of us can get quality advice.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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The HS forum was made in part (I think) so that that kind of rubbish could be segregated. I mean come on, a teenager's life is full of angst anyway, right? Personally, I avoid that forum altogether, you can too.

As for a LTR forum, whatever the reason, it's not gonna happen here. Your best bet is to go to DJ LTR Forum which was created by some members of this forum who wanted to focus on LTRs.
 

undesputable

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Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
I have a better idea!

Shut the all the forums on this site and leave only The Archives. Everything else has gone to shyt because it's infested with AFC's and Keyboard Jockies. :rolleyes:
that works
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A picture says a 1000 words.
 

undesputable

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Originally posted by SupaDupaAFC
A picture says a 1000 words.
Im going to admit he doesnt look like the most masculine person in the world, but he actually tries, and has probably had more contact with women in the last week than you in your whole life....and i could bet on that, bc you must be pretty gay having a name like supadupaAFC...
 

Porky

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Do you really want all of the HS guys posting their problems the main DJ discussion? It's bad enough as it is. Hell, I've even seen a couple of high schoolers post questions in mature man.
 

Climax

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Firslty, there IS A LTR FORUM!! (see my sig)

Secondly, GodsGiftToWomen, when u coming to south africa? you aint pimped till u pimped with me:D


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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