MaTuA
Don Juan
CoSign... :woo:
Cause this was a real ass thread u posted. :rockon:
Cause this was a real ass thread u posted. :rockon:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SHUT THE F*CK UP... obey your d*ck
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thedude4242
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acutally this forum is because we want to have sex.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
I'm putting this into effect starting NOW!!! BUMP THIS **** FOR ****ING AWESOMNESS!!
cassanova35
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not all of us men think with our other head, 
dammm that women's got curves, i wander if she will do doggy position
opps i dont think my other head i swear i dont...... lol
dammm that women's got curves, i wander if she will do doggy position
opps i dont think my other head i swear i dont...... lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MurdocNiccals
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Yeah, thinking with your penis is great, women love guys who seem desperate to get in their pants.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
TheAnswer_
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My man... Speaking nothing but the truth. I've been guilty in the past of making excuses, but now I just don't give a fug. JUST DO IT
Razor Sharp
Senior Don Juan
I would propose that listening to your d*ck is good advice as far as summoning courage for approaching/escalating. Lord knows a huge chunk of the problem guys have in the field is simply not being comfortable with their own sexuality. With that type of hangup you will not get very far, so I see the value of this advice.
But once you cross that bridge and it's time to actually screen a girl, you should definitely be thinking with your (upper) head.
A d*ck is a poor judge of character and will often put that poon on a high pedestal if you are not careful. Also, pushing too hard for sex right away makes it seem like you are not getting any. That kind of desperation will seriously undermine any game you spit.
Another thing to keep in mind:
The type of game you play determines the type of woman you attract
If you are pushing for fast/easy lays and wondering why you can't find a "nice girl", you are doing it wrong. By contrast if you are treating a hoe like a queen and taking your time, you are doing it even "wronger" (I dont care if thats not a word)!
The trick here is calibration - knowing what type of woman you are dealing with. There is a wealth of information giving you clues, even before she opens her mouth. But you won't notice any of it if you are busy staring stupidly at her ass. Make sure you are on top of your game and 100% present in the moment. Pay attention to what she says, her mannerisms, her ENERGY. If you focus too much on if/when things will escalate, you will just shoot yourself in the foot.
For me what has worked best over the years is letting the horniness permeate the interaction, yet it's not the central focus. The conversation between me and my d*ck is essentially background noise as I am connecting with this woman. We are chatting, laughing and generally getting comfortable around each other, which provides a delicious contrast to the sexual tension in the air. It helps that I've learned to pick up on when women are in this sexual state with me. Combination of dilated pupils and certain gestures that convey openness.
I've also noticed that they release a strong scent when excited. Dunno how helpful this is for most people as my sense of smell is very powerful, but there is a definite odor, sort of musky/flowery essence mixed with some kind of chemical I can't describe. The source of that scent is always strongest on the neck, behind the ears. Even if she's not laughing at all your jokes or playing with her hair - if that smell is present and you are the focus of her attention, she frikkin WANTS you. I've never had a woman reject a kiss from me when in that state. Especially after I've gone in and smelled her neck while letting my lips "accidentially" brush against it, sending chills up and down her body.
Fun stuff
But once you cross that bridge and it's time to actually screen a girl, you should definitely be thinking with your (upper) head.
A d*ck is a poor judge of character and will often put that poon on a high pedestal if you are not careful. Also, pushing too hard for sex right away makes it seem like you are not getting any. That kind of desperation will seriously undermine any game you spit.
Another thing to keep in mind:
The type of game you play determines the type of woman you attract
If you are pushing for fast/easy lays and wondering why you can't find a "nice girl", you are doing it wrong. By contrast if you are treating a hoe like a queen and taking your time, you are doing it even "wronger" (I dont care if thats not a word
)!The trick here is calibration - knowing what type of woman you are dealing with. There is a wealth of information giving you clues, even before she opens her mouth. But you won't notice any of it if you are busy staring stupidly at her ass. Make sure you are on top of your game and 100% present in the moment. Pay attention to what she says, her mannerisms, her ENERGY. If you focus too much on if/when things will escalate, you will just shoot yourself in the foot.
For me what has worked best over the years is letting the horniness permeate the interaction, yet it's not the central focus. The conversation between me and my d*ck is essentially background noise as I am connecting with this woman. We are chatting, laughing and generally getting comfortable around each other, which provides a delicious contrast to the sexual tension in the air. It helps that I've learned to pick up on when women are in this sexual state with me. Combination of dilated pupils and certain gestures that convey openness.
I've also noticed that they release a strong scent when excited. Dunno how helpful this is for most people as my sense of smell is very powerful, but there is a definite odor, sort of musky/flowery essence mixed with some kind of chemical I can't describe. The source of that scent is always strongest on the neck, behind the ears. Even if she's not laughing at all your jokes or playing with her hair - if that smell is present and you are the focus of her attention, she frikkin WANTS you. I've never had a woman reject a kiss from me when in that state. Especially after I've gone in and smelled her neck while letting my lips "accidentially" brush against it, sending chills up and down her body.
Fun stuff
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.