Hmm, this girl I talk to is always making eye contact with me during class, quick glances... but when I talk to her she is extremely bitter and rude sometimes. Is she just covering her true feeling/thoughts up? I dont have much interest in her, but this seems like an interesting situation
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Showing interest and acting like a b1tch
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
There's plenty of possible reasons what, why etc...
She could:
1) Not be interested and be a psycho leading you on, just so she can be rude when you talk to her (not likely)
2) She could like you too much, and so when you do talk to her, she gets shy and doesn't know how to act, so falls back to being withdrawn (you can perceive that as rude and bitter)
3) She is a rude and bitter person all the time
4) It's you, you're just perceiving her wrong...
There's a billion possibilites.
But there's just one fact:
The only way to know for sure is if she doesn't reject you
Yeah, it's kinda ironic. But the only way to know is if you make the move. Ask her out (point blank, not in vague terms), and see what happens. Ask her out more than once. 2-3 times is enough. And this is only in case she likes you so much that she's playing hard to get.
She could:
1) Not be interested and be a psycho leading you on, just so she can be rude when you talk to her (not likely)
2) She could like you too much, and so when you do talk to her, she gets shy and doesn't know how to act, so falls back to being withdrawn (you can perceive that as rude and bitter)
3) She is a rude and bitter person all the time
4) It's you, you're just perceiving her wrong...
There's a billion possibilites.
But there's just one fact:
The only way to know for sure is if she doesn't reject you
Yeah, it's kinda ironic. But the only way to know is if you make the move. Ask her out (point blank, not in vague terms), and see what happens. Ask her out more than once. 2-3 times is enough. And this is only in case she likes you so much that she's playing hard to get.
Hambone2550
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I agree with AlecKNovy. There are a lot of reasons why she's doing it. However, I've been in this situation many times, and most of the time it turns out she was just shy.
Girls that don't have a lot of confidence will do this all of the time. They try and check you out when you're not looking because they're scared of getting caught. So imagine how nervous she would be talking to you if she can't even look at you!!!
If she's really into you, then she'll start to come around after a few conversations. Make a lot of jokes and smile when you talk to her. It will make her feel more comfortable.
Then again, if you're not even interested in her then I guess it doesn't matter anyways!
Girls that don't have a lot of confidence will do this all of the time. They try and check you out when you're not looking because they're scared of getting caught. So imagine how nervous she would be talking to you if she can't even look at you!!!
If she's really into you, then she'll start to come around after a few conversations. Make a lot of jokes and smile when you talk to her. It will make her feel more comfortable.
Then again, if you're not even interested in her then I guess it doesn't matter anyways!
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put her on the spot.. tell her you know she wants you ..lol
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Like he said.DonGorgon said:
Say I know you want me but, you gotta stop acting like a b!tch first.
Throw the rudeness back at her, girls like it.