"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should Men Shave Ther Legs?

Darth

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Heh. me and my buddies always make fun of men with shaved legs.

So...yeah, I wouldn't do it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ThunderMaverick

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If I wanted to I would. If my girl had a problem with it and I didn't care that much, sure I'd let it grow. I become considerate when it comes to my woman being attracted to me. However if it was something I really really liked doing and she had a serious problem with it I'd have to let her go.

Like if any girl told me I couldn't shave my balls anymore...she would have to go. I enjoy smooth marbles. I hate hair on my nads.
 

Crazy Asian

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i shave my entire body twice a year for swimming.
it's so fvcking itchy, especially in the crotchial region.
 

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Hair removal is very common in body building worlds. That's my only reason for grooming my body hair. It makes muscles look better, period. I don't always shave, I've never waxed, but I'll make sure I don't have a lot of body hair.

I live in SoCal, and many more women than not actually prefer it.

Just look at bodybuilding.com's site and do a search for "hair removal" over a hundred articles pop up.

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/bbinfo.php?page=HairRemoval
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Derek Flint

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Yes, if they're gay.

The emasculation of American Men continues, and some follow like blind sheep because it's on MTV or some $#!T
 

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Columbia said:
I'm a cyclist and I shave my legs. You'll hear a lot of BS about how it's more aerodynamic or whatever, but the truth of the matter is that it just looks better and more intimidating to the competition if you're in really good shape. It may or may not be the same for other sports.
My Dad used to do competitive cycling and he shaved his legs. Not for aerodynamics but for the fact that it's easier to clean and treat the inevitable cuts and scratches from a fall.

BluEyes said:
So many people are avoiding the question...
or has sasquatch-like hair growth, that shaving your legs is rather pathetic...
:crackup: Yup I use a trimmer on my legs to to keep them from looking like they belong to a Wookie. I don't shave them smooth though.
 

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for me, i dont think its right for men to shave their legs... i wouldnt do it
 

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Maxtro said:
My Dad used to do competitive cycling and he shaved his legs. Not for aerodynamics but for the fact that it's easier to clean and treat the inevitable cuts and scratches from a fall.
Yeah I've heard this too. Again, I never found any truth in it. You don't tend to get cuts per se, but burns (from the friction of rubbing against the ground at speed). If there's enough friction to burn you, then it'll also burn away the hair. I never had a problem cleaning up the mess, even before I shaved.

But hey, I'm not a hairy guy to start off with, and I'm only speaking from experience. You father had different experiences than I do.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why RACING cyclists shave...

1. Primary reason is easier to provide leg massage to enhance recovery
2. Easier to tend to wounds (ie road rash), ie remove the tape (Maxtro)
3. Slight, but significant aerodynamic advantage. 0.6% saved as it reduces turbulent air flow, translating into about 5 seconds over 25 miles.
4. Better evaportative cooling, ie cooling by sweating more effective
5. Reduce inner thigh friction between the skin and shorts, esp. on long hot, rides where you acculmulate alot of salt from sweat.
6. Old school, european pro look
7. Show off your muscular legs
8. Make you feel fast

RD
 

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Shaving your legs is gay. Enough said.
 

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should men shave their legs? Yes if their goal is to attract other girly men who also shave their legs.
 
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