"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ShoULd I WiFE hEr

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theres this girl in school who had a crush on me for a couple weeks. HEr friend had a crush on me first so i bet that made her want me more. So anyways, today i fvcked her and she wants to be my girl friend. Im a senior in H.S n shes a sophomore but shes only a year yonger. the problem is that i don't know if this girl is wifey (GF) material. she says she fvck 3 dudes b4 me, which isn't good. She also called her self a slut one time which might be just joking. But i take that type of sh1t serious. I ask this guy that knows her (he gay) if she loose and he says shes decent. Right now im thinkin about not wifing her but the though crosses my mine. If faithfulness n the possible slut factor wasen't an issue then she would have more of a chance. She does look good BTW. WHAT Do ya think?

p.s. i have more options so cutting her is no problem.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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It's been my experience that you should always follow your gut instinct. If something doesn't seem right, and you're asking these sorta questions from the get-go, then I'd say forget about it.
 

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im sorry this is really irelavant but is his name ************...............wow!
 

penkitten

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dont say wife unless you really really really know her and want to make her your wife.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In nyc we say wifey meaning girl friend...i don't participate in the forum but i being here longer then most, i just log on every couple months, SO U STOLE MY NAME...lol.

I can tell most times if a girl is loose, but this one i feel might be acting extra perfect to get to me. So how can i tell if she is doing this?
 
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